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getting worse instead of better
October 13, 2004
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Why does each day get harder and more painful? It's been 5 weeks since the break up and things are supposed to get easier day by day. Instead I find myself more and more sad as each day passes. I don't know what to do. Have any of you found that things get worse before they get better?
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October 13, 2004
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Hey sweetie,
I'm sorry your hurting so much. The pain will go away. It will, time really does heal these wounds. Keep focusing on yourself. Are you angry at him? Yourself? Are you going over what could/shoulda/woulda? DON'T. Think about YOUR future. What you want to do for yourself? Try getting a pedicure when your sad, its amazing:)

October 13, 2004
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Hi Angel 😉

It's called "transition" Everyone is different in how they deal with breakups. Some days are really good, some ok, some not so good. It's a loss and we have to work thru it in our own way and our own time. I don't think I will ever get over my ex fiance, but I will survive because I make the choice to do so. Yes it hurts, but it's not a bad enough hurt that I would give up myself, my life, nor my children for.

Hang in there!!!!!

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Sunny

October 13, 2004
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Thanks you guys... I am very angry at him, and am angry at myself for being sad he is gone--because he's no good for me- he's immature and selfish and no one has ever been so cold and cruel to me.... I just am so frustrated. I want a new guy, right now! lol I am so impatient, I can't have a new boyfriend, I need to love me first. But how? I can tell myself, I love me and that I deserve better, but how can I make myself believe it?

October 13, 2004
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Do you have any family, friends near ? Anyone you can visit with?

Sunny

October 13, 2004
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3 steps back, 10 steps ahead. Sometimes things go that way. Things get worse before they get better. One day you may wake up and feel really good about things. Keep your head up and try to remain positive during your tough time. I know it is hard when you are used to being with someone and then you are no longer in a relationship. You just get that lonely feeling. I have been there. It is not easy. However, you can do this!!! One step at a time. One day at a time. Everything always works out in the end. If it hasn't worked out, it is not the end. I live by those words. Also, learn from yesterday, live for today,hope for tomorrow. Things will get better for you. Hang in there!!!

Jewel

October 13, 2004
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((((((Jewel))))))

Wow! Look at you go!

Sunny

October 13, 2004
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Sunny,
I live with my cousin (she's 1 year younger than me) and a couple other girls... but we are all in college and busy...and the other girls seem to be sort of like hermits.... But I am trying to be here for myself and everything...it sometimes seems like my life isn't worth it... that I'm not here for anyone anymore (well I guess me), but it's harder to take care of yourself than others. I don't want to stick around anymore.

October 13, 2004
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i am sorry for having such a bad attitude. i try so hard but never seem to get anywhere. i want to be happy, but i don't know how.

October 13, 2004
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Art Angel,

You are going through a hard time. It is okay to be angry and have a bad attitude. I think that is part of the healing process. It is good to get your feelings out.

Jewel

October 13, 2004
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Art angel,

You said he's immature and selfish and no one has ever been so cold and cruel to me.... I just am so frustrated. What do you miss? Just the company? You deserve so much better than that. You were not treating right so you are better off where you are now. You know what I mean? Enjoy your single life. It is fun. Go out and do what you want and when you want. There are a lot of good guys out there and really cute ones too. Don't let this get the best of you. You live, you learn, and you will survive. Go out and live your life girl. It will get better. Give it time!!!!

Jewel

October 14, 2004
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I meant you were not treated right. Not you were not treating right. Opps!! Sorry about that.

Jewel

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