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Getting stuck in just half the equasion........
July 2, 2009
12:56 pm
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I have been posting here and on another forum for several years now.

It just occurred to me today that I have been stopping at just describing my situation(s) over the years and never pushing through or following through as to just what my feelings are/were relative to those situations.

Does this make sense to anyone?

I guess, that is where the vulnerability aspect kicks in - you know? To finish 'going there' with the feelings associated with it.

I think that I have been fooling myself for a very, very long time now just thinking that by describing it, in purely intellectual terms would be enough.

It isn't.

Getting to the root and underlying repressed/denied feelings I suppose is what is really going to be able to make me REALLY deal with it, feel it, process it in its totality and finally move on.

Geesh, this seems so simple and obvious to me now........that matter-of-factly just describing it and living in my head only... just ain't cutting it anymore!

It's not so much about what has happenned - as much as it is more importantly - how I FELT about what happened? - which is key.

How could I have missed this for decades?????????

Geesh!

July 3, 2009
11:22 am
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((((truthBtold)))))

July 3, 2009
3:15 pm
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(((Truth))), Sounds like you are finally ready to share some of your history. Don't be hard on yourself. Everything you have been doing is in preparation for this moment of realization. We can't rush the body's healing process just like we can't stop it once it starts. Welcome to this new and exciting phase of your life 🙂

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