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getting strong
September 28, 2000
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hi, im getting strong it started almost two months ago i left a boyfriend who was treating me very badly calling me names and making my life his life. well i moved into my daughters house and started dating my x-husband which i have not gotton over yet, well they started trying to control me and put guilt on me as well. i am now moving to mom once again and they started putting guilt trips on me saying that by now i should have my life together, well yea if life was that easy we would all be together. Anyway what im saying is that it seems everyone on the outside is always wanting to control ones life. I have learned and still learning day in and day out that we need to stand up for who we believe we are whether its going to cause friction or not. with this experience im still going through ive learned more about who i am and what i want. i hope that i make it cause everyday is a new day and new challenges, sometimes i wish i would die and sometimes i am so happy to be alive. has anyone experienced the same as me. have you gone through trial after trial?

September 28, 2000
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yes, and you go girl. keep on keeping on, its hard, but worth the effort.

September 29, 2000
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u know somedays are better than others,today well im ok but i wish i had a place of my own and i wish i was living together with my x-husband. i don't know if he is the best thing for me but i sure do miss him. how can i know im heading in the right direction i've been real bad at picking out men all my life. can anyone give me some advice?

September 29, 2000
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Take some time and find out who you are , and what you really want make a list, make your goals, and list what you like and dislike about the marriage, some of us have gone back when we were maybe not so strong, and that is when the good of the past shows, and often the negative aspects come out in neon after you go back, you left for a reason, do you remember, write to your self like you are talking to a friend, weigh it all out, but I think time alone is the answer, not swayed by others. What is the rush, you know my ex, I loved my life with him,but couldn't stand him after 15 years, my current husband I love him but hate my life, go figure.

September 29, 2000
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Well i say this,Everyday is a blessing to me. I've learned to live one day at a time and try to enjoy that day.

Live isn't to anyone,So live life happy time is short, and just remember God Allmighty is always by your side.

And that's a fact.

September 29, 2000
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Well i say this,Everyday is a blessing to me. I've learned to live one day at a time and try to enjoy that day.

Live isn't to anyone,So live life happy time is short, and just remember God Allmighty is always by your side.

And that's a fact.

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