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frustrated in cali
October 26, 2000
12:27 pm
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humbrol2
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wow,, here goes the problem,., i am a Marine that has been AWOL for 29 days now,, i am living with a girl i met at a strip club,, she soon quit her job after i moved in with her,, the relationship started off good but it was one where i was the one pouring out all the emotions or a majority. seeing as my only family out here was the military and i have cut ties with them for now i am at her mercy,, i work a temp job where i tend to move around and dont get to know my coworkers to good,, my sis lives north of me but is impossible to reach and i dont feel comfortable talking to my brother,, so she is the only one i can talk to.. so when i have a problem with her it builds till i cry and break down,, lates problem,, i was sick all day wed and now thurs,, wed night she went out clubbing and never came home,, she went with a girl i know has cheated on her boyfriend and as they left, they told me NOT to worry since they both had boyfriends they would stay out of trouble, i have been cheated on in ALL but one of my relationships so needless to say im a fragile basket when it comes to relationships,, is there anywhere i can turn,, anything i can do? please help

October 26, 2000
3:14 pm
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#1 you need to define your boundaries. What are you willing to live with? Is she worth it? You need to have a talk with her and tell her how you feel and don't be afraid. If she doesn't understand or care then you don't need her. You are better off without her. You need to be with someone who can meet your needs and it does not sound like she does that. I think the first clue to me is that she is a stripper. Yeah she maybe beautiful but beauty is only skin deep. I personally would not date anyone with that kind of profession. Look at you, you are a marine and that is definitely admirable. You deserve better, and you can get it!!! Don't be afraid to fight for what you deserve and don't let anyone tell you it is not okay to feel the way you feel or to be who you are.

October 26, 2000
11:18 pm
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Your feelings are strong indicators of the truth, she is treating you in a poor manner. I would not go out clubbing on my husband or boyfriend for that matter, unless he was with me, people club to meet and pick up others mainly.
You sound very sensitive, kind and somewhat fragile. You need support, friends and most imp self esteem and love before you can truly attract someone with the same self respect and who will give you the same love.
dont lean on her to provide you with a sense of love, confidence and family that you dont have, do it for yourself, you will be far happier and way more attractive.....hugs

October 27, 2000
4:23 pm
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You'd better address the fact you are AWOL before the Marines find you and addresss it for you.

Don't make a bad decision worse by running from a problem you have caused.

You need to be strong and find YOU. Sounds like you pick bad relationships...and are having trouble breaking that cycle. Perhaps if you go back to the Marines you can get some counseling and get out of the Marines.

Then find YOU and don't worry about relationships until you are strong in your self.

October 30, 2000
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yes, i agree, go back to the marines, dont run from them, life or anything. Face the problems in your life. blessings

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