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Friend on trial
April 21, 2000
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How do you know a friend is really a friend? Is there a way to tell if someone really likes you as a friend? What happens if a friend is very friendly towards you when they are around you, but when you are not there, they make no effort to contact you? Should you do help someone you consider a friend if they never help you back? Is it right to test people to see if they are your friend? Should you test people to see how much they love you? So many of these searching questions need answers.....

April 21, 2000
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I'm one of those who doesn't make contact, even though I care very much for my friends. My best friends are all people who don't get their feelings hurt by that, and have come to understand this shortcoming of mine. But I know there are a lot of relationship opportunities I miss. But I have enough trouble maintaining the ones I have. My friends have on occaion confronted me about not instigating contact, and I have apologized, knowing that if I value this friendship I have to invest something in it. I'm glad my friends gave me the benefit of the doubt and continued to pursued me. I don't think I would call that testing, just honest confrontation. I don't know if this is applicable to your situation, but for what it's worth, only count on friends who have a vested interest in the relationship.

April 21, 2000
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Don't "overhelp" anyone freinds family chldren.

Do YOU want to be tested as a lover and as a friend. Would you "Pass" the test?
Somedays I would pass and some days I would not.

People are mostly acquaintances in my life...a very few "friendships " have developed oner the years.

some friends I have not seen for a long time but could take up with this minute...others have slid back to the acquaintance spot.

Live your life by the golden rule.."do unto others" don't worry about how many firends you have
And don't take it personally if your friends don't call you.

set good boundaries in your life and don't be "used." To have a friend...be a friend.

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