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July 23, 2005
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Hello friend,

Just want to say thank you. Thank you for your awesome wit and humor. Thank you for your sensitivity and intelligence. Thank you for noticing the little things. Thank you for your kind words, thoughts, support and encouragement. I know you're going through a lot right now, and that makes it even more appreciated.

Not Hallmark, just 2b.

July 23, 2005
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Hey Glittered,

A wise man once said "No one respects the fire quite like the fool who's been badly burned."

...That same man tried to solicited my help in marketing his invention of CHOCOLATE...FLAVORED...SEMEN.

LOL, My point is you seem very resilient and I get the impression that things don't keep you down long.

But when you need to talk friend, you've always got an ear in me.

You have my thoughts, prayers and support.

Young & Restless

July 23, 2005
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OH!

Glit?

May I post your proverb?

July 24, 2005
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This was from yesterday. I'm pushing it up because I think you need all of the support you can get today. Warm, gentle hugs to you--2b

July 25, 2005
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Dear Glittered,

At the risk of being a pest, a nice one that is...

July 25, 2005
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Thank you.

2b, your warmth of spirit is an encouraging thing.

Y&R, I hope to remain resilient. You may post my proverb - be advised I borrowed it from Pete Townshend's song "slit skirts." Alas I'm not that original, but I borrow well ; )

July 28, 2005
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I don't feel good today. Mt stbx and kids will be coming back home today after a little mini-vacation.

She was angry w/ me yesterday because I didn't call. I didn't call for 2 reasons: 1 I didn't feel like talking to her. 2. I had called the day before and wanted to see if she would call me.

she got angry when i gave her the reasons and accused me of being manipulative. I disagreed, she started becoming abusive and I hung up because I'm no longer going to tolerate abuse from her. after I hung up i thought about it and realized that I was being a bit manipulative in that I wanted to see if she called. I called her today and apologized for being manipulative and then we started talking about how she felt. she was angry. she started telling me why, then became abusive again (i.e. " F U"..and assorted other angry insults) so I told her "this is over" and hung up again.

I feel alone now, we're not even separated yet and I feel alone. I'm bothered that if we've decided to separate why should we be arguing? I understand how she feels, so what is the purpose of arguing now? to assert blame? what difference does blame make? It's only going to make her angrier. Or is she angry with me and wants to blame me because she's afraid to admit her own wrongdoing? I would discuss it with her, but I'm not going to argue about it with her and tolerate abuse.

July 28, 2005
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G.

Another difficult conversation, eh? Wouldn't it be great if there were a script to study for separation, or breaking up, or any other traumatic life experience for that matter? Sometimes trauma and crisis bring out the worst in us. I truly feel that her abuse and tirades are a way to try and control you. So what if you didn't call. Whatever the reason, it does not entitle someone to be verbally abusive. Yuck.

I am so sorry you feel alone. This is the worst time, and as I said to hurts on her thread, it must be experienced. It's part of the grief process of letting go. The analyzing, the questions to one's self, the guilt, the anger. It's a hard time. But--and this is a big but, and an important one: It will pass.

You are a wonderful, wonderful, wonderful man, so giving and caring. You have much to offer this world. You deserve to be surrounded by people who really appreciate you and love you.

(((((hugs for glittered when he walked...)))))

July 28, 2005
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By the way...I love Pete Townsend, and I LOVE the song Slit Skirts...

July 29, 2005
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2b,

pete townshend rocks!

All,
well I got home yesterday to see my wife and kids just returned from their vacation and surprise! My wife spoke to my kids about us getting separated without me being there! - despite my saying to her (when she did it last time to my olderst dughter) 'please don't talk to the kids about our separating without me again, I want to do that together for their sake." to which she said 'ok".

now i am visibly angry. i confront her about what she did and she insists she never agreed to that and had no intention of doing that because i'm 'my dry and phony.'

well things got a little heated, complete with more abuse from her and some F's and MF's from her too. then I got a "I can handle you anymore, I want you out of here in 30 days!" I said "I'm not leaving in 30days, if you can't stand it, you leave." she's trying to drive me out.

then she comes home this morning after getting a poor work evaluation (which said she's negative, condescending, and has a bad attitude) and she's upset about all that and our failed marriage and she wants me to stay home from work and comfort her! I tried to comfort her, but I had stuff due today at work and wasn't going to call off so i could stay at home with some emotional wreck who was going to tell me how I failed her, why didn't I love her, etc. she almsot used drugs again last night..she told me over the phone she was wanting to use last night. I told her to call her sponsor and she said 'no'. so i called her sponsor and told him i was worried about her and he should call her. he called but she ignored his call.

she's nuts. grrr..this is a vent. that goofed up dizzy emotional ball of insecurity is nuts!

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