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finally put up a personal ad..alicat
May 21, 2006
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put up a profile on match.com

not really interested in dating, but figure I would get a jump on my interpersonal skills and learn how to "weed" out the deadwood.

perhaps making friends will help me get over E....perhaps "dating" (as he calls it) will help me move on.

can't hurt to try...can't win if you don't play...even if I only meet someone to chat with....

May 21, 2006
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Good luck and be careful!!!

May 21, 2006
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I did that too ali. I think its a GREAT idea. I learned how to talk to guys again, and just interact, ya know?

Im not ready for dating either...but..if you dont throw the line out there youre just sitting on the dock looking stupid.....lol.

Snow

May 21, 2006
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Ras,

as snow said, just looking to put my new "skills" to good use - learn how to interact without getting "hooked" on all the wrong men.

seriously not looking to date at all, just looking to see what's out there for when I am ready.....too much time spent on myself, can't make time to date right now...want to enjoy the summer with my daughter before getting involved again.

May 21, 2006
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Great, enjoy!

May 21, 2006
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Hi Ali,
I hope you have fun.
bonni

May 21, 2006
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Oh boy, Ali! Do I have a story for you! I decided to reactivate my Match profile just last week. I don't know about the rest of you, but I do not post a pic so that I can do the "picking", then when I send a wink or an email, if they ask for one I gladly send it. I live in a relatively small town, and don't like everybody in my business, so that is the main reason for no pic posted for the world to see.

Anywho, sent a few winks and emails Saturday night, and got a few responses. Most say hello and ask for pics, which I certainly understand. But this ONE jerk wrote me back after I sent him a pic of me and 2 of my friends sitting in a restaurant and had the NERVE to ask me if I had one of me standing up! What an asshat! That is ALL he said when he wrote back. I'm tempted to send him an email back that says, "No, Sherlock, I'm in a wheelchair!" What a stupid, shallow thing to say to me. How about having a little convo BEFORE asking me for another pic in not such an obvious way! I'm think I'm over this Match thing already...too many guys out there looking for the wrong things! Oh, and he really is "all that"! I should write back and tell him that!

Anyway, hope you have better luck than me! I think Sdesigns is having some real success...I'm jealous!!!

May 21, 2006
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I meant to say that he really ISN'T all that!

May 21, 2006
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alright alicat, whats your username, I'm siging in too.. just kidding šŸ™‚ heh. Good luck! hope you find some emotionally healthy men. I'm having a little bit good spell as you can see.. wonder how long this lasts

PLZ, you could say "I have one of me sticking up a finger up my nose, want to see that one?"

May 22, 2006
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Good for you gals...I live in a small town so I can totally relate to not posting a picture. I am not dating either, but I wanted to have a little lookie-lo. However, I posted a small profile (I think you have to ) and I got a few winks, they are guys I work with (they would die if they knew it was me) and would die and feel like they went to heaven if I (or anyone else for that matter) would actually go out with them, but you have to give it to them, they are at least trying.

I was thinking I might start dating men that live in the big city about an hour out of my small town, but with teenagers that I am chauferring around, work, etc, it is pretty much impossible. And the guys around here, no offence to them are single for a reason. That's the trouble about small towns- we know everyone!

But I agree, I think even thinking about dating is a good step towards independence, moving on, and learning to trust again.

Of course the red flags are people who say things like, Looking for a special gal to complete me (so you are incomplete now or just a Jerry McGuire fanatic)...I'm sure there are a few others....

Hang in there and all the best

Cinamac

May 22, 2006
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I had a really good experience with Match.com. Met some really nice people, and I've been dating a guy I met there since last October. Just relax and be yourself. šŸ™‚

May 22, 2006
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match.com huh? Looks good then, I might register sometime.

What about e-harmony? I have an account there but never did anything (havent paid). I thought eharmony was the way to go since they match you up with compatible/similiar features for the partner (like for me finding someone else with 3 ears is hard. j/k, I got 2 ofcourse)

May 22, 2006
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I did eharmony once, and met a REALLY nice guy thru the site. Well, I "internet-met" him. he lives in ALASKA!!!! Since Im in Indiana, would be a long commute...lol.

He sent me 3 dozen roses for Valentines this year, and hes NEVER met me!!!

Snow

May 22, 2006
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It doesn't hurt to try, and there's nothing to lose. You're not obligated to do a thing. I've been on Match for 1 1/2 weeks, and went out w/ a hottie Saturday night and have another one hot to trot. I was on Yahoo for a few months, went out w/ 5 dif guys. I've done more dating since mid Feb than I have in 3 years. I'm having a great time. Go for it!

SD

May 22, 2006
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heh ok looks good then, I guess there's hope. I'll try then. I'm on yahoo too but there hasnt been any activity, I might make some moves. Actually right now there's this hottie becoming interested in me. It will go well if I continue showing self-respect and relaxation. lets see :O.

May 22, 2006
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shouldn't be too hard to find, I use all the same ID's online, you only need to know my Bday, as well as knowing what state I live in (besides confusion and frustration)......

most of my id's are combos of this info, i'm not hard to find really.

May 22, 2006
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hehe no.. I'd probably wouldnt want to find anyone there even though it sounds exciting. We have our privacy here, heh. But it sure would be exciting hehe. Hmm.

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