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Feeling empty, like nothing. Just need to let someone know...
September 11, 2005
10:35 pm
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Cesera
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Wow. I finally know what it feels like to really be alone. My ex didn't return my call, neither did my sister or best friend. And my toxic "dream" guy said it was over. This all is for the best, I know.

I don't feel angry, or sad, not even scared. I'm just a little nervous because I've never felt this way. I am really, truely all alone, and I feel ok. Not a happy ok. I feel empty, but in a peaceful kind of way.

I hope I can embrace this feeling and stay strong. I know I need to commit to NO CONTACT with my ex and the other man. I just hope I don't go too far inside myself and end up alone forever.

September 11, 2005
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those feelings are normal but you need to find something for you something of intrest and you have the power to be happy with or without anyone turn on the music , dance around the house,jump on the bed do it all and most of all take care of yourself

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September 12, 2005
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I clearly recall living alone for the first time, and thinking, "Damn, I can stomp across the floor in my cowboy boots, with no one to bitch at me about it. I can even fling 'em off by the door, and leave 'em where they land."

--Lass

September 12, 2005
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Cesara-

I am so sorry. It is really hard. I have been alone almost my whole life (and I am pretty cute even)....somehow, you will keep going.

September 12, 2005
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Hey Cesera,

Being alone might not sound as fun at first. However, it is an opportunity to grow and become independent. I have alwyas been independent even when I lived with my parents with many siblings. I would study alone, play alone...my siblings always considered me selfish coz I would mind my own business and was not good liar at flatteries and stuff like that.

Now, I live alone and all I can say is wow!!! I purchased Melody's book recently. Although I am not classical codep, yet I do have some traces of codeps. I have come a long way and come to terms to why we get scared of being alone, why we cannot detach from loved ones, how to detach....

Another essential thing I may add is to develop your spiritual life. Having a Higher Power and relying on Him makes all the difference in our life. To me Higher Power is God! I have a very spiritual life on daily basis.

Keep reading and posting. This website and its wonderful folks have been a great blessing in my healing process!

~Love, Ras~

September 12, 2005
8:56 am
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I have "been alone" too with the ending of a relationship, and what you are feeling is normal.

Your life may feel empty now, but now is the time to fill in that void of emptiness with love for yourself, and know that you will be ok.

My thoughts and prayers are with you

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