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Feeling ashamed of myself and lost
September 15, 2005
9:39 am
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desperate4love
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I can't believe he hasn't called me. I know he doesn't care about me. He was just using me. Still - I can't fathom doing that to another person. How could he do taht to me? I really felt he had a tender soul and was a sweet, sensitive person. But, he is proving he is cold, calculating and manipulative.

Still - I miss him. I haven't called. I haven't called since Monday.

September 15, 2005
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there use to be a thread called the no contact club and it was about people in simular situations as you i will try to bring it up and maybe it can be started again

September 15, 2005
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how long were you two together?

September 15, 2005
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Since April. It was a "forbidden" thing - he is the nephew of my ex-husband. I am 38 he is 20. I know - I'm an idiot.

September 15, 2005
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i have an aunt that is 50 and a uncle that is 25 so your not an idiot sometimes things work some times they dont.

September 15, 2005
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Yeah, it really has little to do with the age differance and more to do with how he behaves/treats me. He is an alcoholic and he smokes pot, etc. He's just very selfish.

September 15, 2005
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I know about both of those my mother is an alcholic and smokes pot even when i born. I understand to some degree of what you mean she chose her vices in sted of me. But i can imagine that in a boyfriend girl friend relationship

September 15, 2005
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Hey Desperate,

Purchase the book "Codependent no more" by: Melody Beattie, it will inform you and empower you. Also, enroll in Coda meetings they are free. Just logon:www.coda.org and find out the meetings closest to your district. They also have online meetings if you e-mail them.

Detaching from addictive relationship is not easy. Ask me, we are all here for this reason or another.

~Love, Ras~

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