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feel like givin up no fight left in me anymore GT
June 3, 2006
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the tread title says it all for me
GT

June 3, 2006
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(((GT))) - How you doing love? I haven't read all your last thread. If you need to talk I will be on my pc for a while then I am going shopping

June 3, 2006
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gt,

to begin with, what emotions are you fighting?

what is going on that has you in this state of defeat?

lotus

June 3, 2006
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hi to you ras and lotus how are you both thankyou for responding.
well here goes ive had it with trying to get better i feel mentally exhausted with setting boundries ,my reading books my self healing work people taking the pi##,
helping people that abuse my kindness,
my relationship being on and off(more off than on)
being ignored like i dont exsist by him,
ive being try hard for years to lose this horrible feelin inside abandonment i think is the word,
ive tried and tried and worked and worked ,
i feel deflated
GT

June 3, 2006
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gettingthere

"feel like givin up no fight left"

This to me is moving forward, If we can get angry, fight etc. This is a change. This is a turning point that I can see.

I am glad that you are getting so excausted bc this means that you will no longer take his crap.

You deserve better. All my love

Garfield

June 3, 2006
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GARFIELD
do you really think so that means there is light then,
maybe ive been looking at my exhaution in a negative way then
i havent spoke to him for 5days now as i had enough of his abuse down the phone shouting at me cause i never do as he says were his words,
and no wonder i have no self esteem,
however i do still feel deflated as it seems no matter how much i set boundries it feels they are constantly being moved............
thanks garfield
love GT

June 3, 2006
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gettingthere

When we get angry enough we make changes that needed to be taken years ago. If you can get angry enough you will move forward.

Not talking to him for 5 days is a miracle. You have never done this, This is a turning point in your life. Stick to your boundaries Gettingthere.

It will work for you. The abuse is not worth it. He has broken you down. Now you are standing up for yourself. No contact for 5 days I am doing a hand stand here. Hoooooorahhh

All my love Garfield

Will catch up tomorrow agian

June 3, 2006
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GT,

Don't you dare give up!!!! This is just your mind's way of taking a break. A "mental time-out". It's okay to be tired, after everything you've been through and all of the work you're doing on you, you're supposed to be tired. Look back and see how far you've come...that's a long way, huh?

I know that you're getting better because you haven't given up, you're still posting aren't you? Lean on us for awhile, until you're ready to start moving again. We'll be here for you!!!!

June 3, 2006
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GT,

You still here?

June 3, 2006
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IrishGirl
thankyou so much yer im still here yove got me pretty well sussed i must say well yere youre right i guess i have been through alot never really thought of that before ...............GT

June 3, 2006
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You're welcome! Sometimes I think we get so obsessed with our final destination, that we forget to pat ourselves on the back for the fact that we've been through H*ll!

When you feel like you are at the end of your rope....tie a knot and hang on for dear life!! Hang in there!!!

June 3, 2006
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IG yer your right...........it dont help though when in between tryin to heal someone pours salt on your not yet healed wounds,,,,,,,,hey how come you no me well was it intuition
GT

June 3, 2006
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GT:

I'm sorry you are feelin this way. Garfield is right tho... when you get angry then change comes. Don't let things tear you down. Hang in there and keep fightin. You are worth it.

June 3, 2006
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Nope, not intuition....I AM YOU and so are most of us on this website. We really are in this together, which is how I know that you are not alone! Sometimes I don't even want to get out of bed and deal with another day of being hurt by people I've always been kind too. I think the people pouring the salt, don't want you to get better because then they have to look at their own behavior. Unfortunately, the farther you come the more salt they pour. The good news is that it hurts less and less over time, IF you take those "down" times you're feeling to re-charge you're batteries!

June 3, 2006
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HMMMM sounds like me in the mornings its a struggle to get through the day sometimes,right now but its cause were not talkin right now but i dont want to feel down because he decided to be abusive to me,,,,,,,,,,,i like this sayin though which helps I DONT RELY ON YOUR GOOD OPINION OF ME FOR ME TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF
i will take that time to re-charge once again thanks and take care GT

June 3, 2006
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You take care too!!! Talk to you later!

Irish

June 4, 2006
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MAMAC
thanks you know i do feel real angry and my attitude has been real off key though,,,,,,
someone beeped me yesterday to move but i couldnt so i undid my window and started to shout and scream at her,poor woman and one thing i have noticed i seem to be putting up with less and less from people and HIM.........BUT we are still not talking so im feeling is it all worth it i have set boudries and he has walked away,,,,,,,,,,,,,
GT

June 4, 2006
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Oh my friend, I am so sorry you are feeling so low.....I know how it feels to lose it with some innocent motorist who does or says the wrong thing at the wrong time...I did that a couple of months ago with some old bloke and nobody could believe it was me....

Im not in too good a place right now and so I find it hard to be positive and say the things i want to...i posted on the no contact club which i have never done before because i feel such a mess but please know that I am thinking of you and what you say is so true...

YOU NEED NOBODY'S GOOD OPINION TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF

take care GT

Love sleepless

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