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feel kind of hurt-Jewel
March 14, 2007
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Today is my birthday and my fiance didn't even say happy birthday to me or anything. I think that is kind of mean and hurts my feelings. I know it is just another day, but I had an appt. this morning and the nurse even said happy birthday. Oh well, I guess I am making a big deal out of nothing.

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March 14, 2007
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Happy Birthday Jewel!!! One year my husband and children forgot mine and it hurts. I tried to admit it was just another day to in order to cope with my hurt feelings. Maybe, he is doing something later for you!!! Keep your chin up! Happy birthday sweetie!!!...............gg

March 14, 2007
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Of course it hurts, Jewel!! We all want those closest to us to acknowledge the things that are important to us, and your birthday is special to you, as it should be. I hope he'll acknowledge it at some point today. And if he doesn't, I hope you'll let him know it hurt your feelings. What's the point in having a fiance if you can't share your feelings with him?

And happy birthday! I hope the rest of it is marvelous despite the disappointing start.

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March 14, 2007
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Happy Birthday
Maybe he's saving it up for a big surprise later on today.

March 15, 2007
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He didn't forget me. I went out to eat with my grandma and mom. I was out all day and so was he. I ended up in the er for something. Don't worry, I am okay now. šŸ™‚ I was having very bad chest pain. It turned out that the muscles in my chest and ribcage are inflammed and sore from straining them from lifting something or even sleeping. I am rather thin and my ribs do stick out. Anyway, my fiance doesn't have a lot of money right now so a happy birthday would have been fine. He ended up buying me a beautiful bouquet of flowers and a silver cross. I get scared, lonely, and lost when I am home alone without him in the middle of the night(he works the graveyard shift) so he said I could wear the cross and it may make me feel safe and protected. I almost cried because he was "really" thinking of something to get me. It wasn't expensive or anything, but it is the thought that counts. I am not into material items. I just thought it was the sweetest thing. By the way, by the time I got home, it was close to midnight. He said happy birthday after midnight and I was like, hon-my birthday was yesterday and we just smiled. He is such a sweetheart. I am very grateful to have him in my life.

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March 15, 2007
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I'm glad it worked out, Jewel. That was a very sweet gesture.

March 15, 2007
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Jewel, I'm glad it all worked out for you. A belated Happy Birthday to You and many more. šŸ™‚

March 15, 2007
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(((((Jewel)))) I know he wouldn't forget your Birthday and he would come through in the end. What a beautiful gift--a cross. I used to always play with my cross on my necklace (the necklace broke) and it gave me such a sense of security. I am glad you got to spend it with your mother and Grandma, too. Family is important (as I keep telling myself).

Just wanted to tell you I am happy you had a Happy Birthday. I'll write more later, possibly on our old thread, ok? Love to you, Wendy

March 15, 2007
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Thank you all for responding to this thread. It just really hurt me. I felt unimportant and forgotten. Everyone in my family called except for my dad. He didn't call me last year either. I don't know why. I think since I am getting married and everything, he thinks I don't need him or care about him anymore. That is not true at all. I just don't have a relationship with him really. When I was a kid, he worked out of town and I just never got to really know him. I know my future father-in-law better than I know my own dad. I know it is sad, but true. Wendy, where did our old thread go? It must be down there somewhere.

Jewel

March 15, 2007
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(((jewel))) I know how you feel...so many times I feel invisible, and unappreciated. That hurts so much. I am so glad your fiance did something special for you, because you truly deserve the best! Happy, happy birthday, dear!

March 16, 2007
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Awwwww!!! Thanks ready. Very sweet of you to think of me. Makes me smile. šŸ™‚

Jewel

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