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September 3, 2006
9:01 am
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I just left a 15 year relationship.When I was growing up in an alcoholic family I was in a shell to the point I would freeze around new people and avoid people I knew.I started my growth change about 7 years ago I read alot of self help books but find myself becoming dependant on them.I am starting to be more assertive.I have children and they are a true inspriation in my growth.I still have alot of down days.Knowing I have to keep on my path for myself and for my childrens well-being.Fear and guilt creep in so quickly and easily for me it is very important to catch that voice and to stop it and let my higher voice take over.Knowing growth and change is to be taken one step at a time and it takes time.I wanted evrything to change instantly but it doesnt .As I need to see the small things that are developing in my life in order to keep going.It is much easier to discipline and implement boundaries and rules within my family now that there is not a manipulator in there to hinder it.Some days I awake lonely and empty and others I feel joyful and fulfilled.Chooosing this path is what was missing in my mental state and conquering co-dependancy by exploring my feelings and emotions.I cannot blame anyone for how my life is and accepting that it is unfolding the way it is meant to.

September 3, 2006
1:34 pm
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It looks as if your doing great sweetheart. Keep it up

September 3, 2006
2:22 pm
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keep up with the good work, and keep the focus on you as you are doing. Things seem to be going on a good path for you.

September 5, 2006
3:37 pm
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seadollar -

Was this relationship you left abusive? You indicated that some sort of manipulation had been disrupting your life and your choices. Was it coming from this past relationship? Share what you can.

- "Strong"

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