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Family sibling problems...very distraught..please read from omw
November 10, 2005
1:17 am
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OMW-

Remember, there is the HP, power, and abuse of power. Remember who has the highest power, and don't give too much power to someone who is not the HP. Yes, it is big. It is huge when you go from anger to hurt and back again. I decided something, gf, we no longer are innocent victims, we are innocent, brave, strong survivors. Don't be victimized. Don't let someone abuse the power. Don't even try to figure out someone who is irrational. You can only control your own behavior. YOu can only explain your own behavior. You are only responsible for your own behavior. Good thing you are you. I like who you are. From everything I know of you, you just hold on with all your heart, and ask for strength, and athough it is a dark time and you don't know what to do, you are a good, brave woman. So, cry if you need to, feel angry if you must, and know you are a great lady who has done her best. We will get through this. Hugs, Neshie

November 10, 2005
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Thanks Nesh, doing better and yes it was victim mode. thanks for your thoughts.
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November 10, 2005
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OMW-

Got the sibling abuse books out of the library today..will let you know if they are worth checking out.

Also, saw the guy, used all the new strategies, and I was a survivor today, not a victim! It is hard to do the program, but I used everything I learned. Mostly, I kept detached and did not engage or fall for his tricks.

November 11, 2005
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So proud of you, that is great!!!! It is one thing to KNOW what to do and another to APPLY it...you go girl!! Will check out the other threads in the morning.

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