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Ex wife please help
December 4, 2001
6:56 am
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Kev
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Hi im feeling a little confused about women. My ex partner and i run a small business, we had been married for 17 years when she decided to divorce me. We have been divorced now for 5 years but stil live in the same building as we run a business and we both decided to keep the business and go our sepertae ways. We have 3 lovely children who have all grown up apart from one and moved out. I have been seeing this women now for 2 years all though she lives 65 miles away and we dont get much time to spend together with her working and my self running this business, but we are both happy with this and i love her dearly. My ex wife is also seeing someone she has done a week after our divorce came through. I sufferd from bad depression for 2 years after my divorce as my marriage meant the world to me but sadly she wanted a divorce. Now we have both moved on like i said im seeing someone so is my ex. The trouble is why does my ex wife question every move i make, I have bought a christams present for my g/f and its in my bedroom ready to take to her, yet my ex wife went into my room and searched through all my things then asks me what this box is and who is it for. I just tell her its my business and i dont ask her anything. Her behaviour is really getting to me. She questions where i am going what time will i be back. Am i wearing a new jumper, am i going ut with her (thats my ex wifes name for my g/f) its getting where i dread doing anything thats going to upset my ex. I sometimes wonder if its the dog in the manger syndrome meaning she does not want me but by hell no one else can have me. Can someone please explain to me why she might be doing this. I never question her, i always support anything she does and im happy now, happy than ive ever been since my divorce. please help a very confused man. Thanks.

December 4, 2001
11:57 am
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I think you might be right on with your diagnosis. This is the first time you have been happy since the divorce right? Seems likely that she has picked up on your stability, happiness, and she isn't number one any more. Just go on, and be happy, she wanted the divorce, can't have her cake and eat it too. Tell her to stay out of your bedroom, she lost snooping rights with the divorce. Go buy a cz ring, leave it on the night stand, really give her snoopieness a whirl.............

December 4, 2001
12:23 pm
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Seriously... tell her to stay out of your business. She's grasping at straws now that you're not mooning over her anymore...

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