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ex gf problems
October 23, 2006
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andy haveiong ex gf problems

October 23, 2006
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i no i am and i need help badly plz

October 23, 2006
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Please elaborate littlejohn...what are you feeling right now? This isn't really a chat room its a message board...so best to pour out what you are feeling...someone may be able to help.

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October 23, 2006
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im feeling sorry for my gf but at the same time i feel like she betraded me because she cheated on me with her ex bf and a few other guys that i didnt know about and i found out about it last night and me and her exbf and her dad had a big cinverstion about the whole thing and now shes calling saying that she still loves both of us but she wants me the most and im so confused that i dont know what to do so i came here to see if i can get some advice

October 23, 2006
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ok, well...you are calling her your ex gf...so can we clarify here, do you want her to be ex gf or gf? And why do you feel sorry for her?

October 23, 2006
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i feel sorry for her because she has been through alot in life and i no how it feels to live a fucked up live becasue i the first 17 years of my life was so crazy some ppl said they probably would have commited suicide or somethin so i know how it is to live a fucked up life so i was trying my best to help her out and now that weve broke up im scared that someting bad is going to happen to her

i want her to be my gf but her ex is standing in the way and i no she loves him too and i dont know if i want to be with her if she still loves him because too much stuff can go on there

October 23, 2006
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littlejohn, you sound very young...and in my experience, very young people tend to follow their heart a lot more than older people...its the bravery of youth I suppose! So perhaps my advice won't go down to well!

You need to stop putting this girl at a higher priority than you are. You are only young, this girl is not your responsibility...her parents and she herself can take the responsibility...you have to take care of yourself. Now, it sounds to me like she's not being fair at all, and is keeping both you and the ex in the picture until she makes up her mind. Do you see how controlling that is? It is wrong to control like that...and its wrong to want to control like that, it means that it clear to me she has a lot of problems, problems that are too big for you to solve, believe me...you CANNOT solve these problems for her...you CANNOT fix her life, you are not superhuman. Leave this girl to her own devices, its not your responsibility at all. Be nice, tell her you think she needs time on her own, and that you need some space to. then go off for a couple of months and do your own thing....

That help?
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October 23, 2006
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thanks rev i just need a good smart and much more experienced opionion thanks that helped me out alot

October 23, 2006
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Littlejohn, we all have been there and we all maybe just a little bit older then you so please take some of these people advise. Your ex-girlfriend does seem like she is trying to control you because she has you and her ex-boyfriend. Don't wait until she makes up her mind to be with you because that will only happen when things don't go well with her situation with ex boyfriend. You have your whole life trying to find the one and you will have your whole life being hurt by other. Just think of it as life because we all have learn some valuable lesson in it.
You can't fix her problems, only she can because trying to fix someone problems will only drain YOU.
Put yourself first before any other person because you and only you will be responsible for your life. We all here probably didn't plan for our lives to be what it is but you do have to be thankful that you are alive and well. If you listen to some people problems, you may realize that your were very small. I just realize in life that no other person is worth me crying over them and really being hurt by them. Not saying that you want go through the pain because we all have been there but we also know that you will get over it in time.

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