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November 13, 2006
12:07 pm
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I had just moved not long ago into me apartment. Me and My ex has not talk in a while and that is the way that I wanted it. Now he is living in the same complex as me but in a difference section. He came over because he wanted to talk. He wanted me to know that he is doing this so that I can see that he is showing me that he can be the man that I wanted him to be. He also let me know that after our lease is up, he wanted to get a house together. Well since he has been here, I still don't see him. I go about my business like he is not there. I told him that this wouldn't be a good ideal but in his mind, he feel that this might bring us closer together. I don't hate him like I did the other mens in my life but I am happy now since me and him is not together any more. I think that he is shock that I can go about my business and not even see him. It is because I don't. I have change alot since I last posted on this board and he see that change. He also put some flowers on my car but I guess when he got out of work, he drove by and seen the flowers on the ground. I didn't want them and didn't ask for them. I have realized that I am a woman, god creation and god child. I am a good person and try really hard to treat people the same because I don't want anything to come back on me like it does in life. He knows that I was a good woman to him and now it is time for another man to see the same. The holdays are coming and I know that he is not close to his family but I told him that he can not come by for Thanksgiving because I don't want him there. If I see him coming to much, I will put a restraining on him. When I told him that, He looked shock as well. He probably thought that I was going to give in to him but he see that I am not playing with him any more. My love for him is gone and I really don't see him anymore. I didn't think that, that would ever happen to me because I did love him very much but it took me a long time to get myself together , and you know what girls! I can say so myself but I do look and feel good.

November 15, 2006
5:42 pm
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You might want to consider stopping at your local police department and look into the stalking laws for your town/state. It sounds like what your ex is doing is stalking you. My ex-husband did similar things to me and scared me 1/2 to death.
I'm glad you're feeling good about yourself. That's an important first step! Definitely look into the stalking laws/definition of stalking. If that's what he's doing, you can do LOTS to get him to stop! Good Luck!

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