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everythings my fault in this marriage
February 8, 2004
12:25 am
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chloeysmomma
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no mattter what i do what i say hubby still finds ways to hurt me emotionally by telling me i cant make it without him in this world and hes always right i feel like iam going crazy and iam about to have a nervous breakdown because he analyzes stuff all the time and it makes me feel cruddy and he thinks he can do no wrong iam finally gaining enough power to walk away from his ctitisims and his angry hurtul words and what ever else hes done to hurt me he lives in the past and i live for today but i hate him for being this way -why

February 8, 2004
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I'm gonna take a guess. Ya hate him kuz of the way he makes ya feel. Ya love him kuz of the way he USED to make ya feel. So you're torn.

this relationship has a time limit.

hugs to you kuz I know how much it hurts.

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February 8, 2004
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it hurts so much iam so torn but i cant leave till i exhast all options iam sad and hurt feel lonely ty hugs

February 8, 2004
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(((hugs to you Cloeysmomma))))

I am sorry you are going through this, but I have read your threads in the past and you are growing stronger and I know you will get past this.

I too have a husband that is always putting me down. I just had to deal with 2 outbursts this morning. I can't wait till he moves out, which he says he will. But you need to remain strong, only you can give him the power to hurt you emotionally. Another thread mentioned something about displacement or projection. That is, all the things HE doesn't like about himself he puts it on you. This has helped me tremendously, as I have realized my hubby is doing this all the time to me.

Be strong, and keep posting on here. This group has been a godsend of strength for me.
Love, Ladyace

February 9, 2004
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so should i stay with him leave or just exhast every avenue till hes disatisfied should i not tell him that i love him anymore cause i dont iam so hurt by him telling me that i will never make it without him i feel sick to my tummy because of him

February 9, 2004
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You should do what is right for you Cloey.

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February 9, 2004
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You say that he is blaming you for everything being wrong in the marriage, yet in your posts you are blaming him for everything being wrong. If you want to make the marriage work, both of you need to own your stuff and work together on it, because both of you are contributing to this mess you're in.

You complain that he treats you like a child, but then you post that he makes you feel "sick in your tummy". If you don't want to be treated like a child, then don't act like one.

If you are still convinced it is all him and you are being a loving and supportive partner, then take ownership of your life and move on and out. The only person stopping you is you.

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