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Every minute like an hour
May 27, 2006
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Rubyblue
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I sit here alone, bored out of my mind, Separated after 17 years of marriage and believe me I don't want to be. My son is at a concert and although I'm sure he'll be fine , I'm anxious about that too. But the worst part is waiting for the x to call. He was here today and said he might drop by tonight. So that's all I need to become obsessed, look out the window 100 times and check my cellphone over and over. What is wrong with me ? Will I ever find any peace? of corse I'm also obsessing about the other woman who he supposedly is no longer seeing. He gives me a little bit of hope that we can get back together, and then he pulls the rug out from under me again. I wish I could recover at least a little! Give me some strength evreybody!!!!!

May 27, 2006
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(((Rubyblue)))

I am sorry for the separation between your hubby and you. I wonder have you and hubby tried marriage couseling?

Turn on some soft classical music, candle lights to help you unwind.
Obsessing is unhealthy, I used to do it a lot. I have learned that if something is meant, it will be.

I will keep you in my prayers. Hang in there, things will get better!

(((Hugs & Prayers)))

May 27, 2006
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I know how this feels, Ruby. I hate that feeling, while waiting. This seems to be when our imagination goes on its wildest mode.

Just hang in there, and know that you are not alone with these thoughts. I just recently have been recovering from these types of things. For me, there was a breakup, and our contact has been reduced to maybe once a week.

So being apart from him is what has helped me to regain my strength and who I am. Afterall, it is MY codependency that is giving me trouble. So that is where I needed to direct my attention.

Just do your best to be strong and confident when he shows up. Don't let yourself appear in the window when he pulls up. (I use to peek from behind a curtain! LOL!)

Good Luck, Ruby!

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May 27, 2006
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Thanks Ras and Jen. I'm in counselling, he is also but separately. He doesn't want to go. Always mixed messages. He just called , but seemed annoyed. Now I just can't wait until I'm tired enough to go to sleep!!!

May 30, 2006
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Sorry for your pain. If the counseling doesnt work, keep your chin up, everything happens for a reason, you may not want this now, but there might be a Prince Charming in the future who will appreciate you for you.

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