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enough is enough part 3
May 17, 2004
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chloeysmomma
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rubbing my nose in the past constantly blames me for his short comings finds faults in only me not himself blames me for his finaces constantly refuses to be intimate with me we constantly do not converse anymore cause he says i have ruined his whole life and iam misrable but willing to make an effort to save my marriage for all those who dont know my situation please read enough is enough thanks i think i need to trust in god more and give it to him and see what he can do to help me iam trying hard to save our marriage i feel so frustrated i could just scream

May 17, 2004
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Hey cm, have been wondering how things are going, if they were getting any better. How is his job situation going? I know you know it, but trying to save your marriage doesn't mean you have to be a doormat to verbal abuse. That's ridiculous. I am sorry you are having to put up with that. Is there any chance of some professional counseling, where there could be some moderation while healthy dialogue is present?

May 17, 2004
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no we have tried that already and no he isnt willing to go or admitt hes wrong so iam just stuck till i can get it together to leave him it is riduclous and i have talked to him till iam blue in the face i dont know what to do its constant so i ignore him and do my own thing thinking about finding myself first before i ever give my heart to someone i really didnt love to begin with its a long story would u like to hear how my whole situation began?

May 17, 2004
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Sure. I remember some of it as far as your issues with missing your ex. But of course I'll listen.

May 18, 2004
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ok short ended version i was in love with a guy i was involved with for 2 yrs then he dumped me so i got married to the first guy that came along in my life and from thier we hit it off and then i got pregnant i had a change in my hormones and i do take alot of responisbilty for doing some things i shouldnt have done when i married him and now hes like doing the same thing to me but worse and iam tied of it

May 22, 2004
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so what do u think

May 25, 2004
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hello?

May 25, 2004
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So what is your plan? Being sick and tired and knowing that enough is enough is the first step. What do you plan to do about it? That's the hard part but the thrilling part too, to realize life is just out there waiting for you. Whatever you can visualize can happen. You deserve love and validation and acceptance and respect just as much as anyone else, and no, you shouldn't settle for less.

I don't really know what else to say but I support you in your search. I do.

May 25, 2004
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The harmone problem is a hard thing to deal with not just for him but more so for you. Ask yourself,
What do you want from the situation?
Do you love this guy you are with?
Whats best not just for you but for your child as well?
No matter what kind of curve life throws us we have to ask the all important questions that don't always solve the problem but at least it gives you a starting point on which direction you should go. The decisions we make with our hearts aren't always right but neither are the decisions we make with our heads, it's a crap shot either way, but if you don't take a chance in life you never get anywhere. You have to dowhat's best for you, because generally what's best for you is best for your children.

May 26, 2004
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today he hit me cause it was over a stupid argument i asked him what time hed be home from work tommrow and then he said that he lost his job cause of me but boeing was gonna lay him off anyways then i said i was sorry then i lost it told him i wasnt gonna take being blamed anymore then he hit me and that my friends is my turning point i need to seek help and leave as soon as i can

May 26, 2004
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Nobody deserves to be hit.

Most importantly keep yourself and your children safe.

Z.

May 27, 2004
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Take pictures of any bruises you have and file a police report. Seriously. Don't just brush this off. Just because you file a report doesn't mean you have to leave. But it could benefit you greatly in the long run.

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