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Engaged and Confused
October 17, 2003
10:25 am
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I have been with the same man for 3 years and we are now engaged. As a child I had a close family friend who touched me in places that are considered inappropriate. I need to know if I should share this information with my fiancee before we are married.

October 17, 2003
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I think you should. It might come up later after you're married.

October 17, 2003
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Is this information bothering you now? Have you done any personal processing as an adult to lay to rest any residual effects and feelings from what happened?

October 17, 2003
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Share it only if you feel comfortable with sharing. Trust is so important in a relationship.

October 17, 2003
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I agree with MJ. Share only when and if you feel comfortable sharing.
If this is heavy on your mind though, you need to address the issue for yourself.

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