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End of a 2 year relationship, Can Someone talk with me?
March 29, 2000
3:52 pm
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I really need to talk with someone

March 29, 2000
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relax,

These are Bulletin Boards, so it may take a little while for people to respond. These aren't chat rooms.

Tell us about your story so we can give some feedback.

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March 29, 2000
4:14 pm
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Okay, this is my story.

I've been in a two year relationship with this women. She has a kid who lives with her. His father is only active in his life when his mother needs him to keep him or if her son wants to go over to his dads house.
Not only that here brother lives with her and we never get to spend quality time together. I've expressed this to her on a number of occassions. She thinks that I don't want her son around but thats not the issue I just want to spend time with her sometimes with no interruptions.

We recently talked about her son and those issues and we agreed to go to counseling but 4 days later she told me that she didn't want to be with me anymore. She hasn't called me in three weeks and she's very cold towards me and doesn't really want to talk with me at all.

I keep trying EVERYDAY to talk with her. Last night I went over to her house and she surprisinly welcomed me. I ate dinner with her and her son and we watched a movie but after the movie was over, she kept asking me when I would leave. I tried to talk to her about my feelings and how hurt I was but she just lied in the bed just listening and saying she was sleepy etc...

This is so very painful for me...I've always been an independent person and this is just killing me. I think the fact that she won't talk with me is killing me more than anything, shes so cold........towards me...

It really hurts....

March 29, 2000
5:10 pm
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Dear friend:

I really think that you should give this person some time alone, to figure out what you really mean to her. As a woman I can tell you that we usually aprecciate what we have, only when we face the risk of losing it. Stop thinking about it, and give yourself some respect too.

March 30, 2000
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Thank you kiki...

I saw her again on yesterday. She actually asked me to come over. Things are going to work out fine, I know they will because the change is beginning with me.

However any other advice would be just great....three weeks is the longest we have ever really been apart.

I stayed with her last night, when we woke up this morning we began to share what we had been doing lately....

I love her so very much....

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