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EF, I got there!!!
October 17, 2005
7:27 pm
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EF,
Remember your post to me abt my bf's ex on the Liberation threads? You mentioned that much as you agreed that her mails were not all innocent,( well, paraphrasing) i shd check why I felt the urge to check up and I suggested we do another thread. I did not ignore you. I went into my "inner me" department to do some soul searching. And I am here!

My insecurity: I never complained abt the frequent contact btw my ex bf and his ex gf. For me, it was normal that 2 people who had once shared their lives wd still have things in common. I was wrong. A very long and winding story but they got engaged - my ex was out of the c'try and it was done on his behalf etc. It is long and cannot be narrated here. But, suffice it to say that he is seeking separation and talking of us coming together. Each time I hear a piece of the story, it makes me wonder the length some people would go just for a ring. So, here I am, with a suitcase filled with that experience in this new relationship.

My resolve: Chicky Fighter had earlier mentioned something along the lines you raised. I was obviously concerned that you both spoke the same language to me and so i decided to work on it. I have prayed a lot- A LOT. I also decided (thanks to this site) that I would never be able to decide wht my current bf can/shd do or not do. So, I decided to let go and let God.

His ex wanted our air matteress since she had guests and altho i was apprehensive, i agreed after dear chicky advised me to. And he wanted to have a coffee with her because she is travelling and wants to say gd bye and I had no problem saying ok.

Now, i don't feel like I have to watch over my shoulder. i am pretty certain that her intentions are not as innocent as she wants them to seem. But, that is not my problem. My bf loves me and I love him. He told me so much yesterday and today and I admit we have our rough times but all in all, i am happy with him. That is wht I am focusing on now. Infact, I think seeing her as a threat was ruining my happiness.

This is to say thank you and to let you know how far I have come. This site works- at least for me and I am grateful to you for pointing that impt thing out to me.

God bless!

October 17, 2005
11:30 pm
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Oh, GOOD for you! Also, he obviously has nothing to hide--he lets you see his e-mails. THere must be something pretty special about you, trust that and embrase it! And while he is off doing those things, go off and pamper and neurture the things in you you love about yourself. Get a nice book, a piece of makup to bring out your best feature, and as Ras would suggest, eat some chocolate! I'm so proud of you, and so happy that you are in a situation where you can trust your partner to respect you jsut as much as you deserve to respect yourself.

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