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drowning in my tears concluding my fears
November 14, 2004
2:43 am
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ballinMo23
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yeah, i have TONS of friends.well liked and known by many people and doing pretty good socially.so why should i worry about me socially is the question i ask?i need someone to love, a mate, someone that will be there for me when the world turns against me.they say "ur young.ur 14!enjoy being a kid and stop wanting someone 2 be with" wrong.its hard.i need someone 2 love.ive been hurt so many times by people i love, i just need someone that wont hurt me and that i can love.listen i no u guys probably dont care much for a 14 year old girl who is crying for help but the one who do please can i have advice?im really drowning in my tears (love wise).people think im this happy wild crazy cool girl whos always laughing and smiling, but inside its a whole different world.help me plz.mo

November 14, 2004
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It is impossible to go through this life without getting hurt once in a while. But you sound like you need to talk to someone that you can trust - maybe a guidance counsellor or parent. it's not good to pretend to be one thing on the outside while your feelings are something else on the inside. You start to lose touch with yourself!! If you've been hurt a lot then you need to reach out for some "real" help and caring. You're not the only teen who feels this way. Please let someone know what is really going on inside of you!

November 14, 2004
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MO:

Until you discover and learn to love yourself and be ON YOUR OWN you will never find a true love. You have to be able to stand on your feet BY YOURSELF first. Work on who MO is. Learn what MO likes. You have to be independent. You owe that to yourself. You don't want to be this wishy washy little puppy looking for love all your life and thinking you have to have someone to be happy or complete. Guys or gals don't want a puppy for a relationship.

I know your feelings are just as real as anyone else's here. I don't think the others feel any different. But, at 14 you shouldn't be into such deep things as relationships. You should be out having fun and learning who you are as a woman. I must say tho that

I do acknowledge your feelings and wonder with such depression if maybe you need to see a counselor to get things worked out. I don't think there is anything mentally wrong, I just think you have some issues that it would be good to talk out w/ a professional.

November 14, 2004
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thank u for ur advice u guys:)

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