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Down but not out
March 2, 2004
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AngelC
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I allowed the jerk I had worked so hard to get out of my system and my life to "talk about things yesterday." I don't know if anyone remembers, but he got annoyed with me for something and did not return my calls. That lasted 5 days. I stopped calling after 2 days. He was away for the weekend and he called me when he returned.
I thought I would be stronger. I wasn't even going to listen to his message, but I eventually did and I called him to see what he had to say. He didn't apologize-- he blamed me, and we went around in circles. I do not like him, and right now I do not like myself very much. I am going to overcome this, because I deserve better, but I wish I had not seen him. I feel toyed with. I feel a lot of other things too. I did not empower myself this time and walk out on him. Today is a new day. i feel like an idiot though. What do I do from here?

March 2, 2004
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Don't beat yourself up over your choices Angel. So if you feel you made a mistake, remember the next time so that you don't repeat it again?

March 2, 2004
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Angel -

Please don't take this the wrong way but you know that saying

You hurt me once - shame on you
You hurt me twice - shame on me?

I think you should probably move on - the whole blame game is stupid and immature. I mean if everyone is supposed to be an adult, you make decisions and sometimes things don't turn out as you had hoped, but that isn't anyone's fault, that is just life.

I hope you are having a good day. I know it is hard when you start to make some headway and then fall back into talking to him and letting him hurt you. Just don't give him any more chances and I am sure you will be just fine!

March 2, 2004
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Thank you for your comments. Today is a hard day, but I will get through. Tomorrow will be a better day.

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