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October 6, 1999
4:17 pm
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About three months ago I went off to college. I left behind a girlfriend and family. Now a days I worry about life and the future. With my girlfriend I worry about someday getting married, which I push, and I ask questions about her love for me. I know she loves me and that she would never do anything wrong to hurt me, but I just keep asking questions. All I want is to have fun and live with her, but my own mind is keeping me from doing that, how do I get over my fear of, well I guess the fear of waiting for the other shoe to drop. I want to have fun, I want to be with her, I do love her with all my heart, I just can't stop being depressed. I don't know why I am, I have everything I have always wanted, I'm going to college, I have a wonderful women who promises to be by myside, I just keep coming up short with something. With family I just keep on fighting against their ways. I have fought religion for so long, but have never really found happiness in that battel. I have faith in my love for my girlfriend and for my family, can having the faith of God help me, or do I need some other help?

October 6, 1999
5:23 pm
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Most definitely having faith in God WILL help you! He is the author and finisher of our faith... through Him all things are possible... Read Hebrews 11 & 12...
See all of us want to feel good all of the time but the truth is God did not promise us this... Read the book of Romans... study it... meditate on it and except it... Stop doubting!!! Oh if only I can take my own advise... Things are so easy to say, but living it, that is the real test! Do not let anyone, your family, your girlfriend, your church lead you.... trust in the one who created you! I really don't think we should all be so concerned with happiness(this is what I am coming to grips with) but I do think we should accept our struggles(they will always be there) and learn from them and find joy in knowing that all of these things are temporary... I think it is the way the we deal with all of this that really makes the difference... We can fight against it (which is normally what I do) or we can let go and find new stronger ways of getting through this life with our higher power leading us....Get on your knees, ask God to show you why you are so unhappy...Remember we are all running the same race... it's how we get there that is different... some of us take the shortcuts, some climb the hills, some take the dark path through the forest, and others just go the way the signs point.We will all get there in the end, some of us crawling, some panting, and others with a bottle of water keeping them from being thirsty and just stolling to the finish. Whatever your path is know that God, who is the Alph and Omega will be there to make sure you make it! Maybe he will even carry you when you just can run anymore(rest in Him on those times)when you fall He will pick you up and give you the strength to go on. Hang in there, we all are feeling the same struggle and pain in this life. What does your gutt say? I think this is where God knudges us to know what the right thing is... Take Care


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