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Doris Day hit 8 months
June 19, 2008
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Okay..8 months, no contact with Dr. Ex.

Why am I thinking about him so much?

When I say no contact, I mean NOTHING.

I guess I am just taking inventory of my life.

Sigh.

June 19, 2008
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i tend to mark time as well. even when something is no longer always on my mind, because i am so organized and scribble notes of what i did each day, i will look at a calendar and say "oh, ten months ago to this day i was _____".

i've always wondered if it was a codie thing.

June 19, 2008
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When I caught Dr. Ex with the other woman (via his email account!) her website was embedded in his email.

I just went and viewed her website again. She is very accomplished, in his field, lives in Arizona, and is married with children. As he told her, "you have made me forget Doris' face." Wow. She must have been a helluva lay. When I asked him what he meant by that, coming clean with my breaking and entering his account, he said "oh that was just poetic license."

I guess his verbiage to me for 3 years was just that: poetic license.

June 19, 2008
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i think someone like him is probably more comfortable dating a married woman. that way he can present the good side during limited time encounters and then go home where he can remove the mask and lay down by himself all ugly inside and out.

any postcards from europe yet???

June 19, 2008
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oooh...lovin..good thought!

Nothing from Danny. I guess I am wigged out. I am thinking like a girl..lol. He warned me that he wouldn't be able to make contact..but I keep thinking when there is a will, there is a way!

He will be back in 11 days.

June 19, 2008
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11 days???? man, it is going by so quickly!

hey, when is your marathon? (no, i won't mark the date on my calendar..but i will be tempted!)

i am just doing sprint triathlon's right now...but my dream is the ironman in kona!

June 19, 2008
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Doris- I have a big hug for you. Unfortunatly when we have been duped 8 months can seem like 8 seconds. The reason why Dr. X wrote that to that married woman is b/c sociopaths focus on females looks. So he is letting his next unsuspecting victim know that she is his next target. Another trait of a sociopath is their charming exterior. So he will say whatever it takes to get whatever he wants from a female.

Everytime a person like that opens up their mouth a lie comes out. Women are tools to him.

June 19, 2008
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Lovin - I am doing Marine Corp on Oct 26. My goal too is the Iron Man in Kona!

Destiny - you are so wise, and I thank you for grounding me again. It still hurts like hell.

((((((((HUGS TO YOU ALL))))))))))))

June 19, 2008
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YES! KONA in 2028! (we have to wait until our competitors die off so the lottery pool is smaller)

June 19, 2008
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LOL! I am laughing so dagggone hard!

LOL!

June 19, 2008
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i am actually half serious! there are so many age groupers that want to enter every year, they have to do a lottery. in the 70-75 age group, however, everyone gets to go!!

of course the "good tv" folks like 78 year old sister mary theresa and that guy with no legs get their golden tickets every year...oh and that blind guy and his seeing eye dog...er son.

if i can get enough $$ together i might volunteer for 2009 to hand out water.

June 19, 2008
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Doris, I know it sucks for you and I am sorry but you really did make me feel better today. I have been obsessing over R. I keep trying to remind myself of all that he has robbed out of my life and what a worthless dawg he is but today is just hard. I am finally wrapping my brain around him targeting married women who become dissatisfied with their marriages. It seems to have been a pattern with him in the past and one he has continued past me. Thanks for posting. At least I am not alone.

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June 19, 2008
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Well I sure can bring a thread to a screaching halt...

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June 19, 2008
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((((((((((Doris))))))))))

June 20, 2008
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Doris- I had a pain like that in my heart for years. The only thing that worked was when I found someone else to fill that void.

The pain is difficult to deal with. Makes it hard to focus on anything else. The only purpose it serves is to remind us to hold a man at arms length for a very long time and make them earn their way into our life so that we dont ever have to feel that pain again.

June 20, 2008
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Hello loves!

Lovin-you are so damn funny! I am howling over your "lottery scheme" to get into Ironman. I am with you!

Bitsy, Autumn, Destiny: My Dr. Ex has a terrible pattern, to THIS DAY, of hawking married women! Mind you, when I split with him, he had his own townhouse and was on the cusp of his final divorce. he is STILL on a forum for married people looking for an "affair." He is claiming to be still married, and is claiming to still be 53, when he is 58.

What a cold slap or reality for me! Thank GOD that bum is out of my life!

June 20, 2008
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(((Doris))) Is this coming back to you a bit strongly with Danny's absence?

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June 20, 2008
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Hi Through the fire..

Probably. I am a tad bit bored at work...and have way too much time to think. School doesn't resume until August...and tax season is quiet. I just have my law firm job right now..lol..and I am bored.

LOL!

I had a great time last night with friends from work. A dear colleague of ours who has stomach cancer and was given 3 months last year..is going strong and sang in his band. We rocked the house..so I am MUCH better today!

June 20, 2008
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Doris, Congratulations on the 8 months. It is very freeing and cleanses the soul. LOve, horsefly

June 20, 2008
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Oh damn--- I know this very well. The I have too much time on my hands so I can worry abd dwell phenomona!

I love that your friend is still going strong.... Beautiful!!!!!!!

Fire

June 20, 2008
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Doris- Married women are easy prey. They are maintenance free he doesnt have to worry about putting a roof over their head, food in their mouth or putting up with their children. He can get what he wants which is sex. He maintains his seperate residence so he can maintain the maximum amount of control. Doesnt have to share with anyone.

I doubt that if given a choice men want to raise children and take care of women just to have sex. That is why it seems that this gender does something that our gender doesnt which is to go out and pay for sex. So if women are offering it for free why should a man be motivated to do a damn thing for her? I have learned that the primary interest men have in women is sex. And a smart female doesnt give in until she gets what she wants. Us codies have a seriouse problem giving. I dont think someone could have a relationship much less a healthy emotional attachment to a person who is living with or married to someone else.

June 20, 2008
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Spot on Destinystar!

Spot on!

When we first split, I found him on this site. I couldn't believe my eyes, because all he preaches is: "I want an authentic life." It is stunning (not really!) that he screwed around with a married woman on his trip, and now still preying on them locally. I would think he would want a nice woman to settle down with since he is now free!

I am unusual in the sense I am 48, and have no children. He has two but was very adamant he didn't want more..but yet..his children were to be held in high esteem, always first, and our lives would revolve around them (I had not met them...but that is what he wanted).

He is just dirty. Very dirty.

June 20, 2008
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"This site" as in the married forum, not here...lol.

June 20, 2008
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(not to give him more air time he deserves non...but since you are talking about him anyway...)

how did you two meet?

June 20, 2008
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Oh lovin..you make me giggle..air time indeed!

I don't know if you are going to stomach this..but he saw me across the room and a restaurant..and fell in love.

Go ahead..tell me how silly I am!

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