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Does it have to end?
September 26, 2003
4:52 pm
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When do you know to end a relationship? How can you see through the thickness of reality what more can be done?

September 26, 2003
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I called the counsellor at my husband's treatment centre to ask her that a few weeks ago. I asked "what am I supposed to do? just act like he doesn't exist? I would like to see that he gets help...etc."

She just asked me "what CAN you do?"

I didn't answer but my answer to that is "I could help him" and THAT is the problem. Sure I could RESCUE him yet again/still/more/forever. And meanwhile he takes and takes and takes and walks all over me and acts like I have no feelings and don't count at all. I was born to serve him.

If you can answer "what CAN you do?" any better than that in your relationship, maybe there is hope.

September 26, 2003
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Artist2,Have you ever sat down and defined the reasons tostay and the reasons to go on paper, where you can actually look at them and study them, and be honest with every answer. So Im living quote" I dont care what anyone says Im doing it for me".How much of life is me.

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