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Does anyone else have an emotional need for sex?
February 13, 2004
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It seems sex makes me feel much better. Still, I don't get attached some times. Is this normal?

February 13, 2004
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I have heard of this it is called an addiction to sex, its actually not as uncommon as you may think, but I heard that the part in us that is our sexual desire, and the part that is caring are very close together so if like the caring part is broken it can trigger the sex part or something, I dont know a whole lot, do you have sex with a lot of people?

February 13, 2004
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No, but I really miss my BF. I can't go over a week without feeling a desperate need for sex with him.

February 13, 2004
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Well, Co-dependency has several parts. There is the love-addiction part and then there's the sex-addiction part. Along with many others I'm sure...

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February 13, 2004
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Is it just the sex that you miss? Or do you miss him? Do you think you relate sex to emotion, or do you really feel no emotion having sex?

February 13, 2004
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Maybe that's it. I wonder if he feels the same.

February 13, 2004
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Maybe whats it?

February 13, 2004
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Something about sex with him just fulfills me. Maybe it's the physical contact, but maybe it's a co-dependency thing. I can't tell which.

February 13, 2004
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Do you feel the need to stay with him after you have sex, or do you want to leave and be by yourself

February 13, 2004
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I can definitly leave afterwards. It feels shameful somehow. Maybe because I know he doesn't feel connected, yet I want it all the same.

February 13, 2004
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MAybe you leave so that you feel like you still have control you know, like see, I can leave you Im the one leaving, because you would rather leave him then him leave you? I dont know how long did you guys date? Did you have anything other than sex?

February 13, 2004
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All over the threads is our story. Lived together for over a year with his 7-year-old son. It's been very difficult. Maybe it's about showing him I can leave, that I can not be emotional and twisted like I seem to be with him. Maybe it's showing him I have self control. But is it really showing that?

February 13, 2004
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It may be showing that, but the question is not is it showing that but are you really feeling that. I don't think you are, I think I have been there where you are at not to that extent of lenght of relationship, but with this one guy I liked and I thought in my mind he just wanted sex, so to show him that I could care less and that I didnt care about him, thats all I wanted too, even though I didnt, I would have sex, then leave him because I didnt want him to be the one leaving me, and in some sense it gave me control but i found out later that sense of control is false because you cannot control emotions or how you feel just what you do with those emotions

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