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do you think they give it ANY thought?
July 22, 2005
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So here I am, another day gone by and I am still struggling to get an abusive ex off my mind. My question is do you think that the people that hurt us think of us at all? Not to say that I want him to. I guess I am doing all I can to stay focused on the present but I wonder if he (they) even notices that I am gone?

July 22, 2005
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I think if my ex thought of me at all, or enough to make any difference, he wouldn't be my ex, I wouldn't have dumped his selfish self absorbed self serving careless A**! 🙂

July 22, 2005
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i think abusive people do miss people they were in a relationship with, but i also beleive they do not miss anyone for good reasons, as they do not treat women/or vice versa, men well at all. so maybe they miss the abuse someone takes? but i would think that they just move on to the next victim.

July 22, 2005
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EF - I soo needed that laugh. Ditto.

July 22, 2005
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I think Haha that abusive people are in total denial about all their abusive and harmful actions.

Only when these abusors face the truth about themselves, and I mean the real truth and their conscious is awakened, only then they would be ashamed and cry incessantly for all their awful deeds toward their victims and they would start working seriously about themselves.

Otherwise they keep moving from 1 victim to another and keep repeating this vicious cycle over and over.

July 22, 2005
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In my case, I was his first love, and I think his first victom...I can't help but wonder if it was too easy with me, if he would never get involved with someone like me again or do these things again?

July 22, 2005
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Yes, I do. I think they hide their pain into their addictions...I'm witnessing this first hand. At least in his case he keeps running from confrontations and responsibility.

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