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Do I love him too?
October 15, 2004
4:06 pm
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confusedone
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This guy that I known from college (about 20 years ago) has resurfaced. He was very interested in me during college, but I was pursuing a guy who "needed" me (now I realize it's codependent behavior)...anyway, he keeps popping up, three years ago he moved about a hour from me, and we talked. I told him not to contact me so I could work on my relationship. He respected that. Now he's back (and closer) and we are seriously thinking about having an affair. Well actually we have been having an emotional affair for about 6 months. Lately we talk everyday, and we have "made out" a few times....He and I are very compatible, and I don't know if I missed my opportunity to have a "real" relationship....AND I think I am falling in love with him! This is all so confusing, my life is all set up and now....

October 15, 2004
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Are you married? What's your current committment level?

October 15, 2004
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why is this guy always popping up? Is it coincidence? Is he following you?

October 15, 2004
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I am married. He is now married too. His job status brought him to that state I live in the first time, and back again. He's a nice guy who wanted a relationship with me. We kept in touch throughout the years, but now he's so close.

October 16, 2004
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Do you believe in fate? Maybe he is meant to be in your life?

October 16, 2004
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He's not a very nice guy if he is making out with you and married to another women! Sorry for being so bold, but I have been there before, having an affair with a married guy... STOP now, it will bring nothing but PAIN to all members involved. If you are both so serious about each other, get divorced!

I understand the pull and attraction but try to look at this for what it is, he is off limits and maybe that's why he is so attractive and vice versa.

Take care of YOU.

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