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Disappointment on my birthday -TAJ64
January 2, 2006
10:43 pm
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Today is my birthday. Typical birthday. My mom does not call me on my birthday. Why does every year she conveniently forgets. I mean it is the day after New Year's. How does one forget your daughter's birthday especially when you are a twin? Does she forget both our birthday's? Also I have been dating this guy for 5 months. I got a standard greeting card. No flowers, no presents. I know he has 5 kids and all (quadruplets) but still the special girl in your life deserves better. Also he dropped me off at the end of our date and drove off. He did not even see that I got into the house on this rainy night. And through out the night, he said several times, "and your point is? I have noticed that he says this phrase a lot. I start conversations and he says this. I decided on the drive today, that I would not say anything unless he started the conversation. He didn't say one word the whole drive and it was at least a 20 minute drive. It has been 5 months, don't think I was ready anyway since the break up from the married man burned my heart. I cannot seem to develop feelings for him. Too funny but my family likes him but I am starting not to like him, like he is getting on my nerves. I guess I am not into him. I feel disappointed today on my birthday. Thanks for listening.

January 2, 2006
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(((Taj)))

I feel for you for all the unfair situations that happened with you. I know this shows me that you are idealistic person. Idealistic people are always like that, they have high expectations of themselves and others.

I am learning recently to slow down and Not take life too seriously and that includes lowering my expectations. So, honey HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND I PRAY YOU WILL FEEL WELL SO SOON!

Sometimes things happen with the best folks. I remember there would pass years when I received no call or card on my birthdays. This year all of a sudden, I received a call on my birthday and an Xmas card with an early morning call at 4 a.m. from my parents to wish me Merry Xmas, as well as from my siblings for both my birthday and Xmas day respectively.

Sometimes life sucks in all aspects all of a sudden. But these gloomy times are followed by sunshine. I pray you will experience sweetie sunshine soon.

Here is (((Hug & Kisses)))

Sweet dreams!~Ras~

January 2, 2006
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(((((taj64))))))))))))
sweetie,hunny, sugar.
what a carappy monday youre having there huh???
and srry, but your boyfriend seems like a rude... ummm tool.
And My point is(((lol))) he , well It seems like you could use someone who at least gets ya the fancy kinda make youi laugh out loud for a minute kindof crds... with at least a flower, ANd a goft... and waits ot see if youve gotten in ok..Or comes in. Ughhhh.
Anywaaay. So sorry you had such a dosappointing day 🙁
I hope the night goes better for ya.

Did you get to talk with your twin at least?!?!?!
Did you get a cake at your date??
Wellll.... eres a big ole Bday hug for Ya (((((((((taj)))))))))))))))
And some smiles 🙂 :d 🙂 :D)) :))) 😀

January 2, 2006
11:24 pm
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Taj, honey, dump him back where you found him:) You deserve better than this, and you know it!!!

He's the rebound guy! Time to move on to someone who can appreciate what a great catch you are!

Sorry that your mom didn't acknoweledge your birthday. OUCH!!! I understand that would be a little difficult to NOT take personally. So I'll just send a cyber hug your way and hope that comforts you in some small way! You are terrific, and don't you forget that!!!

((((((Taj from plz))))))) Happy Birthday, sweetie!!!

January 2, 2006
11:31 pm
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Taj,

Happy Birthday, Honey. My Mom forgot my birthday one year. It is tomorrow. She is gone now, and I realize I forgot so much toward her. So many days, weeks, months, years went by without much effort on my part to reach out and try to be closer. It is better to seek to love than to be loved. And even more satisfying, usually.

LL

January 3, 2006
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Taj -

I am sorry your birthday sucked!

I have gotten used to nobody remembering my birthday, so I have very low expectations for it. My mom usually remembers half way thru the day - and this year my daughter even forgot!...as did my best friend.

I'm used to it - but it still sucks!

I never had birthday parties as a child - and my birthday always fell at the "wrong" time of the year - so there was never any money to buy me anything like they did for my brother, who happened to be born on tax refund time. We always had cake and ice cream at my grandma's house, with her sisters - so I would make $10-$20 bucks there - but it wasn't the same.

I always thought having a boyfriend would change things - but so far, my birthdays still suck.

I have VOWED that starting this year - I would make my OWN big deal about my birthday - and invite everyone - and then I won't have to worry that anyone forgot me!

Happy belated birthday Taj - sorry it wasn't what you deserved.

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