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Difficult decision on how not to hit my ex-best friend
March 18, 2005
2:02 pm
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My ex-best friend and I got into a fight a couple of days ago and I told her I wanted my stuff back because she borrowed my mom's cd's and my jacket. My house just burned down to the ground on dec. 14th and since we got our new house she's been borrowing my clothes. I hardly have anything. The only things I have are the things people donated to me and my family. Well anyways I wanted my stuff back since were not friends any more and I need it. Well before my house caught on fire she let me borrow a dress for our christmas dance and a pair of pants. And she wrote me a letter and said "if you want your stuff back then I need about $75.00 for the stuff that burnt of mine" That really hurt my feelings and i dont have any money to give her. What should I do?

March 18, 2005
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First of all, she is just hurt by the fight as are you, except you seem to be much more of a bigger person. I would tell her that what she said hurt and that she knows you don't have the money or much stuff and that is why you really want your stuff back.

A real true friend who understand. I would say if you really value this friend than to communicate how much that hurt what she said. If not, I would chalk it up to alearning expereience and not have her in your life at all.

I am truly sorry for your loss. I know how hard it can be to lose things very dear to you.

March 18, 2005
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Thank you for your advice and concern! I really appreciate your warm heart and time. You helped me, Now you shall be advized with anything you need help with. They say, "If you help one person someone will help you" You are a very nice person and I hope you never have to go through the things I went through!
peace and love
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March 18, 2005
3:11 pm
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I agree with Aces, and sorry for the loss of your house. I would ask her once more for YOUR stuff back, and if she is an understanding person she will give you back your stuff, if not, i would just let it go. You don't need friends like her in your life. And i wish you peace in the days to come.

March 18, 2005
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princess05-

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your home. This must be an extremely difficult and stressful time for you. Your fight with your friend is surely not helping, either.

It makes me sad to know that people could be so cruel. The way that I feel, people should be fair in their hearts. Your friend knows that you are in need, so whatever happened between you two in anger, should be put aside in decency. Yet she still denies what she owes you. I'm sorry to hear that she is so insensitive to your situation.

Try to put aside what she has of yours, and just do not let her borrow anything else. You have the right to your belongings.

I'm glad you have a new place and I wish you the very best.

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