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dgroovy and the critical mate
July 29, 2005
12:13 am
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hey, this is response to another thread we were on-
my husband is very critical too-complain, complain, complain....
ihave learned this trick works pretty good.
when he complains, i don't say anything...he wants to know what is wrong, i say i was trying to remmember the last time i watered the plants, or do you think it is gonna rain tomorrow? i'm gonna go find my umbrella....i'm trying to figure out what i want to cook for supper tomorrow.

get it...act self absorbed. say something about yourself. if he complains again, then walk off and act like you are busy with whatever problem you through out there at the beginning. sometimes i save a chore to do to be able to evade the critic. like oh, my god, do you see the dust on the tv, whereis the pledge and make a big deal out of dusting it. this usually works for me.maybe it will for you to.

July 31, 2005
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Hey! That is a good idea and would also help me with working on my selfishness, I really have to learn to be a little selfish they tell me. Plus---I will get something done at the same time!! You rock, lost and found!

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