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Desperate & willing to accept help from anywhere
September 18, 2005
11:59 pm
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Boofy
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It is Sunday night & I am @ work (I'm a RN)miserable. Again I set myself up to be rrejected by the same man who has rejected me again & again the last 2 years. I am ashamed of who I am & flustered as to why I use relationships to self-destruct. The most pathetic thing is that I want him to call, I want to continue seeing him. I hate that I am this woman, the codependent, needy girl who lets some guy treat her horribly & then goes back for more. I have to practice total abstinence or it is only going to get worse. Any suggestions of how to let go?

September 19, 2005
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I suggest reading. I bought two great books... one called "He's just not that into you" and the other "Be Honest, you aren't that into him either" and had a blast reading them. Distract yourself. There are so many other men out there who WILL treat you right.

September 19, 2005
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Boofy,

Know that you are not an odd duck. There are so many of us here with the same issues. Not alone anymore, honey.

Read, write, call..just not to HIM!!!

Explore this sight and the internet for help and knowledge.

We each show up one day, and gather strength to do "no contact" and begin to heal ourselves (with God's help, hopefully).

You just hit a wall with them one time too many.

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