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Desperate help 2
January 16, 2006
9:06 pm
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Hey. Thanks for ur advice guys! well im 17 and my bf is 19. Nooo i cant tell him!! well il tell u the full story now, he was an absolute control freak, he wud make nasty comments if i looked nice like "ur an embarrassment to be seen with dressed like tht" he was pretty fucked in the head, mostly do to with his mum, she wud play mind games with him and make him sit in his room in silence to think about wot he done wen he actually had done nothing wrong! but he actually hit me once becuz he cudant get his own way, it wasnt a punch it was more of a slap and it didnt hurt i was jus shocked and cudnt believe it, Anyway he has since moved out of his house and is living with my aunty and he is a totally different person, as his dad used to beat him about to, he seems much happier which is partly the reason why were happier together as he has no tension from home, But the night we split up i had gone out with 2 female friends and a male friend, tht nite he accused me of cheating on him and only going out with the male friend and tht my two female friends werent there, so becuz he made me angry the nxt nite i did go out and i did sleep wiv tht guy he accused me off cheating, and we were still 2gether and tht nite i ended it, i told him i cheated and now were bk together he asked me if i really did and isaid no i only said it becuz im mad and i know for a FACT if i say to him tht i done tht me and him WILL be over its wot he likes, he doesnt tolerate cheating (why should he) but he made me do it,he was so forceful and mentally mulipative,he made me feel low and he didnt want me to do modelling,he got funny about it, saying he didnt want other guys looking at me etc altho i reassured him it was strickly fashion. But now hes fine with it, this weds im goin 2 london for magazine work in london and he even offerd to be with me and take me, hes totally changed since moving out, but i cant tell him, do u think i shud jus cope wiv wot i done? sorry about the long essay!!

January 16, 2006
9:15 pm
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He probably wants to come with you cuz he doesn't trust you and wants to watch out for you - a control move.

And I think that you are hurting yourself by not being honest with him.

Cuz this may come back to bite you in the butt - someday he may find out and it may destroy all the progress you may make in the future.

getting it out now will help you work thru it....if he finds out later - he may feel you kept him in the dark this long - and angry about the ongoing lie.

you ask for help - but then decline the idea of telling him....not sure what else to tell you....there is no good excuse for maintaining a lie to the one you love.

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