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Depressed Again
May 25, 2001
11:23 am
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Molly
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Good for you, you sound great. I am in the process of my escape plan. Things in our house have not been good, and although not bad, just things in neon, that spell out to Molly what the hell are you doing here. I have my head on straight, its not a panic, but a slow process, gota obtain capitol, and rise to the occasion, it just takes so damn much energy. But time will tell and its going to be just as much a shock to him, as the first time around. keep in touch Molly

May 25, 2001
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Molly,

I have been reading the threads from you and have detected you are not as happy as you should be. All I can say for sure is that "yes, it does take all the energy you can to muster up the energy to do it". I was completely exhausted and "wiped out" literally in the last 6 months as you well know. But, although it's been one of the most painful things I have ever had to do, I would do it again. I also was planning for quite awhile before I finally called the movers and made the first move. Life sucks, I know. But, I really believe life is too short not to be the happiest you can be. Maybe you can become closer to your daughters if you make the move. Move closer to them and get more involved with them. You will need someone by your side. It's hard to go it alone. Once you are away you will think totally different (you already know that from before). But, we both know that we can stand on our heads and these men will never change. And I can't live like that anymore. Can you?

Keep in touch.

May 25, 2001
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Hi, I'm reading your story, and all I can think right now is "What an AS*-***E! "

You are going to be a changed woman once you get rid of him! Take this opportunity to start doing stuff for YOU and you alone.

Good for you beautiful one!

Skim

May 25, 2001
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Thank you, and that is just what I am doing. The guy is unbelievable. Not bad, but what a number. Trying to make light of the evening, I asked when he was planning his family trip , its a place he knows I don't like to go, he said with all that has gone on with his business, he is not sure. I said well I have invites to Colorado, Santa Barbara, San Luis, and maybe Maui, but I have a seminar in las Vegas, and Palm Springs, that the office wants me to go on. His only response was when do you think you'll go to colorado. I mean I was surprised that he didn't say something about what do you think your doing?? Like I really could do all those things. hehe 🙂 I can't get him to even commit to a date for what he insists on doing, it cracks me up. When confronting a marrriage plan, for us, his respons was surviving. Now isn't that something to get excited about. Oh, well getting the hair done today, trying something different, hope he has large shopping bags incase I don't like it.

May 25, 2001
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Skim,

Thanks for reading my story. Your kind words are appreciated. Your right in that he was an a**H**e. Of course there were a "few" good things about him. But, there was no balance in the relationship and I feel so much better now. I am doing for me now and will continue to do so. I'm no longer ruled by a control freak. I'm living for myself now.

Thanks again.

May 25, 2001
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Molly,

I believe it's call "insensitivity". He is completely insensitive to your feelings. I can't shake that off anymore and say - it's just the way men are. Not so. I know of many men far more caring about their partner's feelings. I refused to accept anything less.

If you really have the opportunity to go on those trips - please do so. Even take a "cheap" week by yourself somewhere. You owe it to yourself to get away and clear the brain of the cobwebs too. It really works - helps you make a decision one way or another. You can also get your hair done and buy yourself something. Whatever it takes to make you feel good! Right? Just take your time - you have as much time as you want!

Have a great weekend!!!!!!!!!!

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