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October 4, 2008
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I am not sure what to do as far as work. I still have my job in Michigan, but she has also said she can get me in IL. I do not know what I should do.

I am starting to fall again for my friend. We have been having a great time here.

In MI I have a place to stay that isnt my mothers. I will have a part time job untill there is a full time job open. I am beginning to see true colors of people though. I do not think it is appropriate for someone in their 30s to drunk dial.

Any opinions?

October 4, 2008
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I forget what the situation with your friend is. I think you should follow your heart. What do you feel you should do? No matter what you choose make sure you understand the pros and cons of each decision both in the short and long term time space. Above all else, make the decision that puts you first.

October 4, 2008
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Billy- I remember bits and pieces of your story. Especially the part about your mom giving you a hard time.

I like the way the option that gives you a place to stay that doesnt involve your mom.

I think that anyone at any age who drunk dials is annoying to say the least.

Your call. Let me know what you decide and how it works out.

October 4, 2008
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Is a friend or yours drunk dialing? what is up with that. To me drunk dialing was something I did when I was in college. Everyone did it.

I like what fantas has to say about weighing the pros and cons of going back to your job in MI but not staying with your mom. Or staying where you are in IL. Is the job in IL the same company as the one in MI?

I knew you were falling for your friend! I could tell the last time you wrote about her.

October 4, 2008
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Here is my thing with drunk dialing. I think I am able to do it along with people in my age group. Well I think it is kind of excepted. Young and stupid type thing. I would be lying if I said I never called someone while drunk in college. But as far as a professional who is above 30 well I do not think it is something you do. My boss who I have hung out with drunk dialed me. It was very childish. Which hey I wasn't so interested in her after I got to know her a bit better.

As far as between MI and Il the job is with the same company. In both states I will be on my own. My aunt has 2 houses and needs someone at the one she doesnt live at. People are stealing farm equipment from her. That is where I was going to move before I got in my little fight with a car and lost.

Il well thats a though one. I have known my friend for a while now. She is the one I am with right now. If I move here Id like to not start living with her in a dating environment. Since I think that takes the fun away from dating. After all it is kind of nice to pick someone up, drop them off and leave. Then it isnt such a constant with this person. Not that I would have a problem with that. But for dating it seems like it would take away.

MI well I have friends and family there. Which is nice. IL it is really the same. It just isnt my family but they treat me like one of theirs. In fact her family is more fun then mine. With mine you got to deal with secrets. For instance cant tell gpa about parties since certain aunts dont like step gma. Or parties between different aunts and excluding others. To me family is suppose to be together. Yea no family is perfect, but you are a unit. If there are missing links well the chain isnt as strong as it should be.

Well I never fell so much away from her. It is just nice. When you feel comfortable with someone. It is kind of a team work thing. I am not one to have people take care of me if I am sick or what not. She is pushy enough to set me straight about it. But if she is sick I do my best to take care of her.

Plus she loves football. A little too much at times. She gets crazy. It is hilarious.

And I am sorry I keep posting about really stupid stuff such as women and moving and stupid stuff really. There is way more to life then all that stuff. Sometimes it just gets out of control, much like debt. It is nice to get a new perspective. I saw in a thread somewhere that this is much like a different world. I would have to agree. It seems as if everyone is from a different background. The things that brings us here is really the same, problems. Whether they be big problems, or problems that are bumps in the road of life. I find it great that it doesnt always have to be about problems here. There are the threads that make you day as well. So I want to thank ya'll for being awesome really. It is a good community here. Like any community there are disagreements, but for the most part ya'll find a way to move past them.

PS GO BUCKEYES!!!

October 6, 2008
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I think I sold my truck, but I also think that I may have broken my arm and perhaps a rib.

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