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De-bunking the 'Forgiveness' mindset.......
May 27, 2009
4:07 am
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After many, many long years of struggle and giving many, many options as such as to the 'benefit of the doubt' so much as this notion of forgiveness is concerned - know what I have determined......there really is no such thing as forgiveness. No, Not really.

Not. Really.

Seems that alot of us (myself included) played into this such popular....notion.

What it all boils down to - in my heart and mind and soul is a death of sorts.

Like - as if you had an extra appendage or something and then eventually it just turns black and you have to just cut it out.

It's sad. It's hard to do this - but really, it must be done.

Said "Forgiveness" along these lines just never really comes into play.

You delve into the hurt and disappointment so long and hard that after awhile - you simply become indifferent - shrug.

The hurt no longer has impact upon your life.

Forgiveness, as it were - is simply a moot point. Just doesn't apply one way or the other.

You just let it go is all. Some might want to call this a form of forgiveness - I don't. But if you do - then all the more power to ya.

But for me - it is just a cold, hard fact of life to contend with is all.

No forgiveness. It was what it was and it is what it is is all.........

No more, no less. It's just damned sad in the end.....and that's OK.

....in the end..........

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