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Dawg here,, Just when things couldn't get worse,,,, they did..
October 14, 2004
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I just had to quit my part time job because they wanted me to work from 6 to midnight, and i have a 9 to 5 job to keep up with. Just got a letter stating if I don't pay my traffic tickets soon, I might be going to jail. Life is suckin right now... Plus I'm waiting on the court paper work for the divorce. I havn't seen it yet but my ex seems to not talk to me or let me know whats going on...

October 14, 2004
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((((Dawg))))

I'm sorry to hear that and I feel for you! Wonder how we can get you out of this? I'm thinking!!!

Sunny

October 14, 2004
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Well the last time we talked about the state of our relationship (ex wife), I said that we would never be able to have a healthy relationship together because of the fact we are unhealthy in always. So I don't know what to say to my ex. The girl whom I met over a year ago, we hooked back up and are doing well. She is Strong for me.. Should I just tell my ex wife that I have moved on and she needs to do the same?

October 14, 2004
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YES...and be proud of it, not regretful!!!

It is awesome that you have found someone who is there for you!

October 14, 2004
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Heck yea Dawg!!! Can she help you out as far as the ticket money? Lots of times the County will work with you on paying out those tickets. I thought this was mostly about quitting the job and tickets?

October 14, 2004
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Dam, I get much positive feed back from Y'all. You would think that if my ex wife loved me like she says she does, should do everything in her power to recoop the relationship. She hasn't and thats why i moved on..

October 14, 2004
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Well, I threw this in there because this happened this eve. But, I just payed the ticket on line. But I have to hang on until I get payed again, will be in another week and ahalf.
My girlfriend is suffering too. Her ex
owns his own biz and she can't get dime one out of him because of that.
And here I am, working and paying support which I feel I should be doing, am struggling on my own to make ends meet....

October 14, 2004
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Well,
We love our Dawg to be HappyDawg!!!
You made the right decision. That relationship was kaput a long time ago.....

Sunny

October 14, 2004
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yeah, I got married too young 19 to be exact. had issues of my own, then
my ex had hers and we started to rise family just to bring those to our kids.

October 14, 2004
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You'll be ok!!!

Thinking of you as always,

Sunny

October 14, 2004
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Thanks babe, it really means alot to me that people care. I'm working on web pages for my web server. Who knows, maybe I can host a forum like this..

October 14, 2004
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Dawg, listen carefully, we ALL have issues, we work them out through relationship.

Relationships are our greatest teachers.

We can not grow as people, without them.

The key is not to Blame, but to learn and grow by taking responsiblity for your life and your actions.

blessings

October 14, 2004
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You can do anything you set your mind to!!! Southern Sunny says so, LOL!

Hugs,

Me

October 14, 2004
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Emperorsclothes
This I know but when the other doesnt grow with you and learn from life, then we need to move on for ourselves and grow, and experience healthy lives.

October 14, 2004
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Yeah, I'm big into family history. My dads name hodge, has land in va, that that has been in our family name of over 200 yrs. My dad's father dying wish was for someone to move into the house and continue the having it in the name for the next 100 yrs or so.
thats why I work on the page I'm working on now.

October 14, 2004
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Kewl!!!

October 14, 2004
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When I finnish it, i'll post the url.

October 14, 2004
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OK!!! Feel better now?
I hope so Dawg 🙂

Sunny

October 14, 2004
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Thank sunny! its a goodnightdawg now..
sweetdreams.. Is all I wish for..

October 14, 2004
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OK!!!

Wishing you sweet dreams and peace!

Sunny 😉

October 14, 2004
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Dawg, oh gosh, sorry for all the things you are going thru. But I assure you thing will work out some way some how. I am glad for your new gal friend, you do deserve someone who appreciates you and cares for you alot. As for your ex, hmmmm who
knows why she acts the way she does.

You are in my thoughts and prayers,
nitey nite!!!

camer

October 15, 2004
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it sounds like the tickets are a priority. can't go to jail.

October 15, 2004
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Yeah, I payed them, now my ex is askin me for money that I don't have right now.. but.... I'll will someday.

October 15, 2004
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Dawg reading your response:

"Emperorsclothes This I know but when the other doesnt grow with you and learn from life, then we need to move on for ourselves and grow, and experience healthy lives."

I thought of something my counselor told me. There is a kids book called "The Missing Piece"

The story goes like this.

There's a picture of a circle rolling along with a pie piece missing. "Looking for my missing pieced, looking for my missing piece, where is my missing piece"

The circle with the missing piece keeps rolling along and soon runs into a piece that fits perfectly. So they become one and they are rolling along and little my little that piece starts to grow and soon doesn't fit with the circle anymore. And the circle looks at the piece and said well I didn't know you were going to grow. Well goodbye piece. And the circle went on "Looking for my missing piece"

I don't know if that sounded dumb but when she tells it I really like what the story represents. Basically saying that if you don't grow together in time you both won't fit together and it's time to move on.

Hope that came out right.

October 15, 2004
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Thats right! That is what the truth of the matter is.. Thanks smiles

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