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DATING POOL: warning no diving head first
November 10, 2006
7:21 pm
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Hopefull~ Hope all is going wonderful for you this week. Any updates regarding the little lady?? Or new friends on the horizon??

Matteo~ I read your posting earlier in the week and wanted to be sure that I got back to you...

Yes, yes, yes, forever I will remember your name and remember how I felt at my turning point regarding the negetive tapes that have played in my head for years. What you said was just what I needed to hear at that particular time - something just clicked. When I think about it, you called me on it a couple of times... Anyhow since then, my head has been pretty much cleared of the tapes, with only on rare occassion something might start up but it has been easy to shake it off. So, yes my turning point was a *Matteo moment* and also have tried to pass on my Matteo moment experience with others (only I bonk them on the head when they say something negetive about them selves! Working on that one. LOL)

And I agree with you... "I guess we never know how we influence others and the course of their lives For me there was also a lesson too...When we act out of love & sincerity from our heart, others may feel that, and our positive/encouraging words may just make a difference in anothers life. And I love your thinking regarding He stretched his hand to me and lifted me up, and I was trying to do the same to you. What a beautiful thought to carry on... what one person does for you, try to do the same for someone else and who knows how many others lives could be touched...

November 10, 2006
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There's a great book about dating by Beverly DeAngelis - might help.

November 11, 2006
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I had a fun night last night. I went to the club with a buddy and saw a stunning beauty come thru the door. I honestly couldnt take my eyes off her as she made her way through the crowd. An hour later she was bumping me on the dance floor so we started talking. Long story short: I bought her a drink, met her friends, danced some more and I got her number. On my way home i sent her a text message saying make it home safe and that i would be calling her soon. But of course this morning i already tripped up. At about 9am this morning i pulled my phone out of my pocket and pressed a button that dialed her number. I hung up right away but the call still went through. She is probably thinking, damn this guy is real anxious first he texts me on the way home now he calls me at 9am. lol. No big deal. Hopefull i will get a chance to get to know her better and to find out if her personality matches her beauty.

November 11, 2006
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lovinlife,i am done with the other little lady. thanks for asking

November 11, 2006
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I think there is a difference between healthy interest and smothering.

and what you see as "interest" another may see as smothering.

so, your level of "lack of interest" may actually be healthy interest on a healthy person's list.

does that make any sense?

you pinned it on the head when you said that she must think you are nuts for texting last night and then calling again this morning...but then again, you hung up, which may make it look worse, unfortunately.

Instead, you could have told her you hit redial by accident.

I also think that if you are TRULY indifferent and a woman chases you - STEER CLEAR - cuz women chasing an unavailable guy is not a healthy woman.

November 11, 2006
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((((lovinglife))))

November 12, 2006
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I would NEVER have sent that text...not trying to throw stones here, but that makes you seem a little overzelous.....Attractive women are so used to that kind of attention. Play it cool. I would wait a few days and then call. Don't beat yourself up over it though- just learn from it.

November 12, 2006
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Dear Hopeful32

Dont worry about the call...it was an impeduious mistake but it shows you have passion...and that is a great thing. Patience is the key here..I should know...it is one of my greatest challenges. Dont be afraid to show who you really are and dont play games with yourself or anyone else..be the strait forward, honest, honorabel man that I am sure you are. Good Luck.

November 13, 2006
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Penny lane, PATIENCE, PATIENCE, PATIENCE. That is my biggest struggle along with thinking too much. I had a good weekend that could have been much better. I have gotten myself in really good shape which has gotten me more attention when i go out, however I seem to keep flumbling the ball. Friday nite was good for reasons mentioned above. Sat nite at a bar I ran into someone from a class i take every wed nite. We spoke for about 20 mins during that time she had her hands constantly on me and gave me every hint to ask for her number and i clammed up. WTF. She is someone i have had my eye on for a while and i dropped the ball. I left feeling so incomplete and i am sure she thinks i am spineless.

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