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damn glad I'm single this v-day
February 14, 2004
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Ya know, I am glad that I am single this Valentines. Not saying that it wouldn't be nice to have someone special give my gifts or whatnot today...but, if this someone was going to be romeo...forget it. I don't want any of it. With all the sh!t he's put me thru...nah! And even if all the things that transpired in the last 6 months didn't happen...I still think I wouldn't want him as a valentine.

sigh.

i've decided that I do NOT need a man to make me feel significant. Yes, it is nice to have someone care about me and live life with...but, damn, I want this man to be the right one. I mean, I do not want to waste my time with someone who isn't going to end up being the man I spend the rest of my life with. If he ain't going to be my husband and the father of my kids, I don't want to deal with him...unless he just wants to be friends. I can deal with friends...but I don't want romance unless the guy is Mr-Right-for-vegas. Cuz, when I think of it, I gave romeo 3 yrs of my life. I suffered and I sacrificed...and for what...nothing. Just a broken-up heart and down spirit. I am exactly where I was 3 yrs ago...and he's now off with his rich wifey doing whatevers, spoiled rotten. It's disgusting.

sigh...well, I hope you guys have a good Valentines, single or coupled or not. Thanks for letting me just go off with my thoughts. BUt to those of you who will be spending v-day by yourself...don't worry. This isn't the worse thing that could happen to you. And remember, God is watching. He has someone perfect just for you. WAit and see. I know it! =)

Happy Valentines!
your friend, vegas

February 14, 2004
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Am constantly reminding myself, I am a whole person, not half of a whole, meaning , I don't need someone in my life, so I can feel Ive "made it"
this Valentines Day, which to me celebrates couplehood ( which is also another way for society to say, you aren't anyone, unless you have someone)I am taking care of myslelf, going to work, and planning a nice quiet evening.
Heck, why don't they have Singles Day, where we can celebrate our individuality?? Just a thought.

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February 14, 2004
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Hey I am with the both of you. I think that we should all celebrate our individuality everyday and no woman needs a man to give her a sense of identity. Valentine's day is just another Hallmark holiday like Grandparent's day or Secretary's Day or whatever. I mean when you really care about someone - you don't need a day to show it, so why should we feel bad if on one specific day of the year we don't have someone special. Mr. Right-for-Vegas could be waiting for you tomorrow. Who knows?

February 14, 2004
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Here's to those who are single and strong! Here! Here! (clink)

February 14, 2004
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Happy VDAY, single, strong and proud women!

It does feel a bit like this holiday is intended to knock that statement, huh?

I thought I'd just buy roses for myself, but heck, at the going rate for roses this week, I decided against it. Besides, I also pick up a bushel for myself...just won't be today at that price.

And then there was one friend who called 5 times to talk about her plans with S/O and how great things would be. Later calls reported that he was late showing up, had switched private plans into a group activity and moreover, an activity that she didn't enjoy.

Made me glad I wasn't part of some big false VDAY drama. 'Course as the story goes, she won't remember any of that later. It'll all be a sweet, romantic time.

I guess all this stammering and blabbering is to say that I'd much prefer something authentic and mutual to some made-for-today movie special type of treatment.

So, here I sit, having already done the "somethings specials" for the special ones in my life and feeling a bit down as "supposedly" the rest of the world has a fine time tonight.

But, at least I know better....

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