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Crush or something else?
October 15, 2006
10:39 pm
confused as heck
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Again I am confused! I don't know if I have a "crush on this person who is important to me (right now) or if it is something else.

My heart skips a beat each time I see or talk to this person.

THis person has played a hugh role in my past few months and has helped me with several tough issues. They have encouraged me to be strong and to talk about my issues with my counselor. This is very much a safe person for me (or at least has been).

I'm confused, do I love this person, or do I just love what they have done to help me?

October 16, 2006
12:33 am

Maybe you feel happy when you see them and you are not used to responding to someone like that?

You will know if it is a crush if you find yourself daydreaming about them in certain contexts. Romance, sex, etc.

Even if you have a crush, do you like this person for who they are as well as for what they have done for you? This is important if you are going to be romantically involved or become friends.


October 18, 2006
6:14 am
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I think you are right. I think being happy is a new feeling for me. I do get very excited when I see this person or when I talk to them on the phone, but I think as you say it is just happiness because someone genuinely cares about me and how I feel. I do daydream about this person, but it is not really in a sexual way. I have seen us going places together and doing things.

Anyway, I'm not going to stress over it anymore, I'm just going to let whatever happens, happen.

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