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crap piling up all at once...
February 4, 2005
1:58 pm
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and I can't help but feel like I brought it on myself.

It all started when I started dating 2 guys. I couldn't make a decision (i never can make decisions!), so I just let it keep building up and feeling complete guilt over it.

I bought a house, my roommate from college moved in but can't find a job here so she's moving back. Now I need to find a roommate because I can't afford the house on my own.

I'm super broke with bills and my last gas bill was $521 and it's not like I live in a mansion or anything. Just a really old un-insulated house. so now I need to buy a furnace that is going to run me about $1,000.

I just got diagnosed with ADD. I'm now an adult and it seems that this has been a theme throughout my life. I've been trying to find a job for about a year in this area and I'm stuck at my boring, detail-oriented job which reminds me everyday about how ADD I am. My counselor thinks i should go on meds.

My grandfather passed away this morning. I thought this didn't bother me but found myself crying in my boss's office when I had to tell her I was taking Monday off. My family is not all that big and it's starting to feel smaller lately.

Both guys want to come with me to my grandfather's funeral, and both want to go away for valentine's day weekend.

I need to tell one of them, or both of them quick!!

Maybe, I'll just runaway...

February 4, 2005
3:53 pm
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((hi Sugar)) wow you are going thru alot. First with the bf's....its up to you to decide who you want to go away with, stick with the one who treats you good and cares for you.

As for your home, take things slow and try not to get overwhelmed with everything (easier said than done)...keep sending out resume's ..its good though at least you have a job now...and maybe talk with your doctor about getting on meds for your ADD.

((I am so sorry for the loss of your grandfather)))

Keep coming back and posting, ok

February 4, 2005
4:06 pm
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I am so sorry for the loss of your grandfather...I just recently lost my gramma, and It was a lot rougher tha nio thought it would be... 🙁
Im so glad you at least have a job presently.. THAT IS good, andeven though tis not one youre too psyched about, It gets ya' outta the house thats overwhelming you right now...
As for just being Diagnosed weith ADD, at least they were able to tell you "what it is" and not just shake their heads and say " we just dont know what te matter is"
And the MEDS doooo heeeelllpppp!!! sometimes it can take trying a few b4 you find the ones that work best for you, BUT they soo totally do help.. You just mey be surprized... have you heard of the book called "You mean Im not Lazy, Crazy or Stupid" I found it very insightful.. I cant remember who the author is, but Its still in print and all... Working with your Doc on your self, and your ADD may (and probably will) take the magnifier off everything that seems so HUGE to you right now.... "its works if you work it" < An aa saying that makes sence in a lot of plain old daily life/coping issues.... Hang in there!!!! You'll get through this!!!!

February 4, 2005
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Hi Sugar,
So sorry to hear about your grandfather.

On the b/f issue, think of who you'd miss more. He's the keeper.

love 2 U

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