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could I have been wrong
February 4, 2005
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So, last night, my ex was so sweet to me...said all these wonderful things....

I am just wondering if maybe I jumped to the conclusion that he was a jerk, when maybe it was just a hard time in our relationship.

Any one ever experience this?

February 4, 2005
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Before you blow it off to just a bad time in the relationship.....How long have you been together and what has it been like during that time? What you have is what you get I am sorry to say. No sugar coating please.

February 4, 2005
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HI Starry, he may have said all the wonderful things last nite...but will he keep being "nice" to you in the long run....and always be "nice" ....sometimes people will just change for a short time then go back to their ususal ways.

February 4, 2005
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Good Morning Starry,
I hope you are doing well. How's the job and the house coming along?

-Cactus

February 4, 2005
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STARRYYYYYYYYYYYY- are you serious? Is this the same guy that told yo uall the people he slept with and then that he wanted to go have more sex with more people and you should wait?

Im sorry Imm all looped up on caffeine right now.

February 4, 2005
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Cactus..you crack me up

February 4, 2005
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I wouldn't trust him. Who knows what his motives were for saying those nice things. Has he changed? Do you have evidence of that? It could just be temporary and not long term for him.

February 4, 2005
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Starry,
What so ever do you mean?

-Cactus

February 4, 2005
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starry, are you asking if others have wondered if they were just imagining the awful things that happened or did they start to believe the justifications fabricated through the minsds of their significant loving others!!!!?????

Yeah...I did that....FOR 20 YEARS!

February 4, 2005
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Cactus...

I think you know what I mean.

The house is mine on Feb 14th..Valentines Day!!!!

And the job is ok, I will either be a permanent employee or out of work in 3 weeks, because of restructuring...so I am a bit nervous.

Thanks for being here for me!!
I know you so well....

February 4, 2005
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my wife is only nice when she wants something...

February 4, 2005
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follow you gut instinct and don't be swayed by nice words - words are only that - words. I think that you know that your ex is a manipulator. I think that even if you want to believe he isn't and that you are wrong about him, that you should at least honor the fact that something happened that led you to believe he wasn't the man you want. Even for a minute. The fact that he did something to make you seriously question him on an issue of trust - it says something.

February 4, 2005
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Hey Starry,
I guess you know me too well. I'm trying to be understanding and non-judgemental and just "trying to be here for you". I'll back you whatever your play may be. Nobody knows you better than you. If nothing else I gotta say you're resilient.

-Cactus

February 4, 2005
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Hi Starryslp: My guy was nice, and stopped screwing around, when he found out he had testicular cancer. Snip, snip and a little radiation, and guess what? He's fine and back to being a jerk, in fact, a super jerk. Maybe your guy is solo right now, and just wants back in. For what it's worth, dump him.

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