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Could he be in the DL (down Low)
February 23, 2007
9:19 am
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About a month I met this guy, he's cute, sexy, well spoken. He's educated and lives with a roomate. We been going out everything weekend, and we have a lot of fun together. He's so attentive, and a bit soft.
Now, we gotten very close to the point, where we've spent a few quiet nights together(well not so quiet,if u know what I mean).
It's just that, sometimes I get the feeling that he's too good to be true. Sometimes, he'll do a gesture with his hands that just throw me off, thinking that he might actually be in the DL.
But, I can never master the courage to ask him, if he's sure he's not gay. I mean with all my other problems I just don't want him to turn out to be in the DL.
He treats so well, he wants what I want. He's great lover. He always wants to make sure I am satisfied,and I love that about him. He cooks, he got a good job.

The thing is I am afraid to feel too much for him,and to have my heart broken. Although, he's also afraid of the same thing.

How do I know that He's not on the DL.

February 26, 2007
10:31 pm
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I'm no expert, of course. Sometimes the stereotypes fit and sometimes they don't. I would say only you can answer that question for yourself. Do you really think he is gay because your gaydar is ringing off the hook? Or are you just afraid of commitment, as you mentioned? Or is there something familiar about the relationship or this guy that brings back nearly forgotten memories? If you can rule out intimacy issues and previous scars, I'd say you better trust your gut instinct...just my opinion. Take care! Toorainbow

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