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coolman
December 18, 2001
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Lucina
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my hubby is a coolman & recently he treats me so cooly but when he speaks to his friend or relatives is totally different. i think recently i think he got a girlfriend!!!when i return fm o/seas recently he got a phone all fm a collegue of his and the way he explain to me the reasons why she called it was totally unreasonable & unaccepteable, i do not want to talk about it.He will never admit it anyway!!! Recently for minor things he will showed his temper & raise his voice at me, for the past 10 yrs marriage he is not like that but recent 1 or 2 yrs ago he treats me this way & i am stupid enough not to sense it till when i return fm o/seas i heard him talking on the phone. But he loves our son very much this is the only reason i think he will stay with me, for the child sake, he return home everyday and never stay overnight but that does not mean anything, coreect.

December 19, 2001
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Tks blondieNYC for yr comments but even though he is sleeping in our bed at home but he always said that he need to look for carpark at the hourlly parking lot so he left for about 30-1hr or sometimes more everyday, do you not suspect that he went to meet his girlfriend or talk for hrs on his mobile phone???? He got 2 mobile phones numbers.Am i correct blondieNYC???

December 19, 2001
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This is a bad place to be. What does he say if you ask about his girlfriend?

December 19, 2001
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Straight up - he's got someone on the side. Don't wonder. He's playing you.

December 19, 2001
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And further more, is this what your son needs to learn, the acorn never falls far from the tree, bad daddy.
This is how your son will learn to treat women, cheat, lie, yada yada yada, clean out the accounts, and tell him to sleep in his car with his cell phones. for crying out loud, isn't one cell phone enough?

December 22, 2001
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Tks everybody for yr kind concern, really appreciated fm the bottom of my heart!!!!
Reply to Molly :
Regarding the cell phone, the reason he gave me is that use 2 cell phone numbers will be cheaper but i think not now because everything is very cheap nowadays so when i spoke with him few months regarding this matter, we quarrel again.
Reply to Blondie :
Of course if i got evidence i will defintely go for a separation, i cant share with someone else but now my problem is i do not want to be the one to lose out & suggest to separate first without good evidence then he will got good excuses that i am the one who make the move & i think he really wants me to lose my temper & my patient. I got advise fm friends asking me to cool down the matter & see whether there is any more calls coming in etc. They asked me not to mention this problem again until wait & see attitude but when i read yr message i think i should act now but still very confusing. I need to show his family members that i am not the one at fault but him. Although he still make love to me but something i think is not good right, maybe he just entertain me just to keep me out of suspecting him i dont know really, he loves our daugther very much & i think this is one of the reason he is staying behind i am such a scumbag & stupid to wait till so many yrs than found out, it was so hurt but sometimes he is ok, he really makes me so confuse, we all loved our daughter very much i will remember what you said if things dont work out after christmas i think i will go & leave him. I go through alot of things with him & know him for more than 16yrs sometimes i just couldnt believe it!!!!!!
Reply to arist:
I did not ask about his girlfriend, he just said that gf is his collegue who is asking for direction on certain place, where on earth ask him? that collegue of his i know but i do not ask her regarding this matter. Women in this world loves their family first, i can give up my work, my pleasure etc for our family but ...........
Wait and see i think is my only solution even though i know he got gf, correct my dearest friends & thanks again to you all
Have a Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!

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