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July 12, 2009
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Can/should an adult female victim of parental sexual abuse have a continued normal relationship with her father?

July 12, 2009
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Totally up to the person. I wouldn't but that is just me. I don't have contact with lots of people I feel have hurt me in the past.

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July 12, 2009
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I don't think I could handle it, that's for sure. Has he been convicted of his crime? Served time? Is he currently on the Sexual Predator list?

If all of that has been done and you have also received the counseling you need and deserve to assist you in recovery from such traumatic abuse, then you might be able to handle occasional contact with him under controlled circumstances. I have heard of it happening.

But if he has never been exposed, convicted, done his time, etc., and you have never received the therapy/counseling you need, I would definitely say "No Way."

I am surprised your family would expect this of you, unless they are still ignorant of his crime? It has been kept covered up?

- Ma Strong

July 12, 2009
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I'm not the victim, I was in love with a woman(who still has her father come over for dinner and visit his grandkids) who broke things off with me when she thought that I was becoming manipulative and untrusting of her- the last thing that I would ever intentionally do.It just seems to me that this was not a normal thing to take place.

July 12, 2009
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Maybe I should not be in this forum, but I do feel like I'm a victim of this guy that victimized his beautiful/wonderful daughter too because now I'm feeling the pain of my loss as well as her pain of just plain trying to get through life in a normal way.

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