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continue to be shocked.....
February 6, 2006
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My ex and I are taking a break. I told him I need 90 days to be alone and concentrate on myself. He doesn't go away very easily. I'm having a hard time with boundaries. The kids want us all to do things but then he takes it more seriously than I do. Just found out today that he sold the car we used to own together and has been lying to me for a whole year about it. Why does this surprise me? Maybe because I believed he was trying to change. He says he is going to meetings and counceling but I cant believe anything he says. just wanted to vent.... thanks

February 6, 2006
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I think that is great that you have the courage to take this break for yourself. I to have been at the end of believing lies, it makes you question how many other things are true or not...It's hard when we really are hopeful things will get better, we easily get sucked in. I am trying to make my judgements on actions instead of false promises, ya know. I'm sick of believing lies myself.

February 6, 2006
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I get lied to all the time. It has robbed me of my joy and I feel sad a lot of the times. What helps me is to surround myself with those I can trust and they help me to be strong. I feel like I am losing my mind because the liars are so good at covering there lies and I get confused .I also remove myself at times and I feel sorry for them . I am glad I don't have to lie. I wonder why they lie so much what are they trying to do...Accomplish?
With my spouse he is passive aggressive and if kills me when he allows himself to make the choice to lie to me.
It is hard. Getting away is a good thing...It has saved me ..I try to be fair and not give him a reason to lie to me.
It is hard at times ..Thanks I needed to vent too...

February 7, 2006
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Thanks for the responses. It feels great to hear from other people. I feel like I have alot of courage sometimes and then other times I don't. Right now I'm mad and he has hurt me so much but what happens when the anger is over. I feel like this time is different though. I actually feel freed. I'm trying to find my identity for the first time. It feels weird.

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