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March 14, 2000
7:47 pm
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There is so much to my story I don't know where to begin. I am a man in my 20's and have known that I am attracted to men all of my life. Over 2 years ago I met a guy on a dateline and we quickly became best friends. We have done everything together over the years including quitting our jobs and traveling. Both of us had never really been with other men before so everything was completely new to us. To make matters more complicated, both of us are completely closeted. Many people have ideas since we spend almost every weekend together, but noone really knows for sure. The main problem I am having involves our sexual relations. We have been having sex since we met but he always seems to feel guilty about it after. He says he is bi and still attracted to women but men have also always been an interest of his. Even though we deeply love each other, there is no way to define our relationship. We are open with each other to an extent, but I have so much trouble communicating to him about sex. His solution is that we have to stop and eliminate that part of our relationship. Yet I feel it is so important to express emotions physically. There's a lot more to consider though. He opened up to me a little over a year ago and told me he was sexually abused as a child. Lots of anger and saddness came out but the wound has not healed. I've told him that counseling can only help and that I will always be there for him. I'm beginning to feel that I need therapy too. There is so much confusion about us. So many issues to deal with. This relationship is so important to me that I would do anything to save it. I would do anything for this man. Where should I (we) turn?

March 15, 2000
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Seek professional help separatly and toghether. t he relationship may/will change but it will be the only chance you two have.

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