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CONFUSED PLEASE HELP!!!:(
January 14, 2006
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wannasmile
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Hey guys
Im in highschool and i am really struggling with alot of stuff at the moment... i have a great like good friends and am healthy but i feel so empty and lonley. No one really knows who i am and it scares me to think that!! I have anxiety and really find it hard to connect with people because i have been hurt in the past... people think im really confident because i put up a front..but really inside im dying... sometimes i try to show people this but they just think im craving attention!!
please give me some advice of how to come alive and be happy again
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wannasmile

January 14, 2006
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Hey i know how u feel, i just finished school as well. Don't know how i can help but i have to say hang in there. even tho u may think theres no-one that loves u or that cares about u, you'll be amazed that there are ppl who do. i don't mean ppl at school wit u coz trust me i know most ppl that u hang around at school with aren't ur true friends.
I'd say the person who is ur true friend is the person where u can feel as tho u can be urself, as in not hiding urself from the world. is there anyone u know like this?

January 14, 2006
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Hey yeh i have my bestest friend from like yr4 and someothers and skool... im just so messed up and wanna scream!!!
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January 14, 2006
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wow, wannasmile - it was like reading my diary from many years ago! I went through exactly the same feelings and emotions at your age caused by an abusive childhood. People thought I overflowed with confidence (a brick wall), couldn't see through the facade. Sometimes this empowered me and other times it angered me but either way I just felt isolated and alone and very, very unhappy. I really didn't know how to handle it (who does at that age?) but I somehow got through to adulthood and then saught therapy which taught me to start trusting people enough to let down the walls and very slowly I began to build relationships built on honesty. I am a different person now but I still remember the pain & torment of my school years so you have my total sympathy. Is there a school councellor you can talk to? Or perhaps someone else?

January 14, 2006
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I find that praying helps me.

January 15, 2006
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Hey Jewel
Yes i have been to see mu school counsellor and we talked for a while and she told my mum and no its an awkward topic because everyone thinks im craving attention.. its so hard because im old enough to feel this pain but to young to go by myself... im just confused... i would love to keep talking to you about it!!

January 16, 2006
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Hey guys if any one else has any advice for me it would be well appreciated im struggling heaps and i wanna make my parents proud by coming out of this really tough stage so i was wondering if anyone has gone through wat i am going through and came out of it and how they did it...
please help

wanna

January 16, 2006
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Hi Wannasmile- Your story reads alot like mine in high school. I'm still dealing with the issues now. I graduated HS in "91." The good news is there a lot more resources to assist you with your issues.

I'm not sure of the issue. You mentioned you have been hurt in the past, who hurt you? What is the hurt? Answering these questions will help you get to the root of the problem. Another good thing is you are young and aware of your issues. It takes some of us a life time to figure this out.

You can seek couseling at school. Please don't be ashamed to do this. If my school had one I surely would have lived there. Also attached are a few websites that might be helpful.

suite101.com
joy2meu.com

Please don't suffer in silence. Reach out to someone you can trust. Just make sure that someone can help you. I really suggest a teacher or counseler. Friends are great but they can't give you the help you need at this point in your life. I promise you it can and will get better if you want it to.

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